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I am starting to like Baltimore, but I still root for pats and think we should knock Houston on its ass today Ps : If a few "cow" boys want a shoulder to cry on I am here jk (It will be a good game, you guys aren't Miami

Yeah, but most of us northern elephants really don't like Washington and have been waiting for someone to say what's been on our minds for the last decade. We hate the hypocrisy and we really don't like big spending in the deep south, "rural improvement" does not mean high speed internet access for half price. Let's be honest James, can you tell me why the hell does your state get so much Federal aid and its Republican members keep telling everyone else to quit spending on themselves at the same time they're trying to grab a piece? At this rate, I might not be opposed to another Reconstruction where all the old elephants in the south, who used to be donkeys growing up, get put out of their misery and some real elephants get put into office. Christie spoke his mind, he said what everyone else was afraid to say and for that I commend him.

Gay club= fun and interesting Gay bar= old guys hitting on you I am not a club guy or a bar hopper, but I don't know if other gay guys get the same strange feeling in gay bars. The crowd in them are over 35, which is not bad, but it just seems weird that there aren't many younger guys or gay bars for younger guys in their 20's. Anyone else see the same trend outside of Boston?

I don't really let them please me beyond a certain point, I guess well, I don't know how to really let them do it. I want to open up my heart, but I don't know how to. A box of chocolates or a stuffed animal is awesome, but I don't know how to respond to that except reciprocation with chocolates and gifts. Come to think of it, almost everything my past lovers give me, I basically give respond with reciprocal gifts of a similar manner if not even more. Two things about me, I hate owing people things and I don't want to feel dependent on other people. I don't know maybe it's a lot of complex stuff with me or something as simple as just not accepting gifts without giving back.

The House Republicans had earlier made motions to push the aid package out of discussion. It wasn't all the Republicans, but a good majority of them. Christie was right to be disgusted, the same Republicans that pushed against Hurricane Sandy aid were given bountiful aid for other things with taxpayer dollars throughout the years.. New York is one of the top tax contributors to the US government, even higher than Texas or California. New Jersey is in the middle of the pack in tax contributions, but it takes very little from the federal government.

I'll pitch a TV show to MTV called the "Everyone is gay" Banger can pretend to be the slow texan, Matt can be the fast talking college kid, and I can be the moody guy.

Target: Clothes that are cheap and look like expensive fashionable brands, because they are all made in China

Just my two cents in support of Christie's short speech and press conference: I have to make a political comment on this, because it is so rare and something that needs a round of applause from everyone. It was unapologetic, strong, and aggressively real. Things that the Republican party of the 21st century seems to lack. It also did something I was hoping to see more from Northern Republicans, be blunt about the Hypocrisy of Southern Red States and the federal aid that goes there. I never expected someone to openly say it especially in elected office and is a luminary in the Party. I've said it for years and heard other Northern Republicans say the same things about the hypocrisy and disparity behind closed doors, so maybe this is getting open after a lot of build up. It also says something big about the Republican party today, we're not united. Christie is right on the ball, why are New Jersey and New York, who give as much or more in tax dollars than Florida or Louisiana deserve any less? Among the jobs of the federal government, disaster relief is in its core. The job of government for almost three thousands years has been among other things, disaster relief. Whether you are reading ancient Hebrew, Egyptian, Chinese, Babylonian, Greek, or Latin histories about governments, you read recorded history of drought relief, flood relief, earthquake support, and other disaster (Hell the biblical plagues weren't that rare). If the federal government cannot even do something every other government has done or is doing in history to present, why should people not be angry? Why should we offer fealty or loyalty to national parties that are so stuck up there asses that they cannot figure out how to do a thing that everyone else has done? Lastly, we're talking about the heart of the American economy. We need New York and New Jersey at optimal efficiency, We need the skyscrapers electronics and other things to be cleaned up, so offices can be re-opened. (I know for a fact that the central air system in one building has heavy metal in it that is preventing it's full opening after the Hurricane, it's bullshit). If you're imagining building management or insurance can handle it, the cash costs of such repairs is enormous, not to mention that Hurricane insurance is rare in the Northeast. Anyway, here's Christie's speech that is making its rounds: http://youtu.be/B1tkP6-ns6E

hmm....I don't like the looks of this New Year I want to just lower my guard and try to be more open to people.

I forgive almost anything, especially betrayal (not only infidelity type of betrayal, if I can't trust you, then I can't really open up to you). I am really understanding and if the guy has a problem I usually patient waiting for him. I might be cold, but I am not unsympathetic. It's a paradox really, I am open to others, but reflexively closed in my own heart and thoughts. I want to be with them, but know that they have their limits and that it's likely that things will end eventually. I guess at the start of all my relationships despite what I hope for, I also prepare for the pessimistic outcome. By the way, YB is that an invitation

I miss Pete and Pete, the Secret World of Alex Mack, and my favorite nick show the 90's: Are You Afraid of the Dark http://youtu.be/jitg-3xbmKU

Depends on which one, some gave great head and a decent rim job. I also love doing it for them as well depending on the circumstances. On the flip side of things, I have never done anal with any of them as a bottom, fingering is as far as I went. Hope that's not TMI for you YB Rustie, to be honest, I don't know if I received and gave equally. I mean it wasn't bad to be with them, but I tried to be an attentive lover and balance that off with distance. Part of me just didn't want to give too much or too little. I don't know how to explain it completely.

For my teenage wet dreams, it was Josh Hartnett, oh so yummy when he had his buzz cut:

I missed Captain planet and old fashioned propaganda Don't worry Method, Gen Y'ers or Millennials are laid back and open to provocative angry protests like the baby boomers. Instead of Vietnam war and Great Society, we have 9/11 and a Great Recession. In my opinion, Millennials will be less corny and much more graphic, when we take over such productions. Gen X'ers don't have the stomach for the reality of the world. Too many Yuppies

I guess I am a cold person and calculating (Accountant stereotype ), though to be honest, I am just really set on objectives and getting things done. I seem to get all the small things right (like noticing details about the other guy like work or family stuff, then giving him support), but can't quite get the big stuff right. I don't expect to be with a guy forever, just as long as I can. It's weird to explain my problem, every guy I dated says I am a great guy and nice. They also said I will find someone better.

I freely admit, I suck when it comes to romance and relationships. I can guess at other other people's motivations, their desires, their needs, and their wants, but I do not know how to express real emotion beyond just meeting objectives. I think I have done everything right in being a dedicated lover and supportive partner, but I just can't seem to stick in relationships. I am not clingy or overly distant as I can reasonably anticipate what other guys want or need before they ever ask or poses the thought as some of you probably notice I possess a gift of interpretational empathy. I know that I don't express "real" random emotion easily or offer spontaneous warmth, but I really don't know how to do that. I might not try to control a relationship, though I try to control my feelings. I have gotten in and out of so many relationships in the last few years, I am getting close to giving up on dating. Anyone got advice to help?

Sticks head in...notices its full of gay males and take a seat next to yb and lacey. There are words that stop being hateful after wide use like nigger has become over time from a racist slur to a term of black affirmation and pride. A word is just a few letters on a piece of paper, its meaning comes from human emotions placed on that word.

Well, it looks colorful, but it's "campy" good, not nostalgia good. Come to think of it, was't the 80's the era John Waters and Camp grew into a pop culture fad.

I prefer the 90's with boy bands, punk rock, the rise and fall of usenet (anyone else remember the old fashion internet), Netscape, and the best movie of the late 20th Century Titanic (Personally, I think Shawshank Redemption is far superior) I still don't understand the 1980's completely, it seems like an era of really quick trends, early Michael Jackson before he bleached, AIDS, thawing Cold War Tensions, and some wacky TV shows that would herald the death of sitcoms with notable exceptions like Who's the Boss? and Golden Girls. I love pop culture, but the 1980's was all over the place.

Was Just born in 1987, so not much to remember. The 90's were cooler and had the best cartoons

Hands wildone a wet wipe and antacids

Merry Christmas to you all

Boston only got 1" today, but it's better than nothing

I love this episode for Christmas: Enjoy, Part I http://youtu.be/YGwHJL4RyOg Part II http://youtu.be/56ky9wHS9ow

Which is why you offer people living on the street some old winter coats you don't wear or maybe a portion of your Christmas Dinner (even if it is slightly vegetable heavy). Beyond the religious overtones that not everyone will like, Christmas is a holiday of giving and sharing with your fellow man as well. That's why friends come over for dinner, in laws come over for visits, and families gather around a table. Life is hard and despite the progress from the time of Charles Dickens' "A Christmas Carol" poverty and want is still around. We can't get rid of those bad things in the world, but for one moment in time, we can try to be better. I leave you with one of my favorite passages from "A Christmas Carol":