Wow! Congratulations to you both, though I never had any doubt that the two of you would get back together. In spite of the problems you have you're made for each other. Chaz, if you're reading this, it was a risky way to teach him a lesson, but hopefully it's worked. Green, mate, you know how it feels to lose him now, so hopefully you'll think twice next time and start talking rather than walking. I know your first instinct is always going to be to run, but when you're in a relationship you don't get that luxury. I'm sure if you need space Chaz will give it to you, but tell him what's wrong and why you need it first - you're partners and that means you share everything, the good and the bad.

If talking about something seems too hard then write it down and let Chaz read it. I know that a lot of people, me especially, find it difficult to say how they feel when things go wrong, but you seem to be able to write it down fairly easily. Tell the rest of us about it by all means, but make sure the most important person knows about it too.

You guys seem great together and if you remember to keep talking I'm sure you can work through anything. Good luck.

Rob

Welcome Chaz!

Welcome Chaz!

Hi guys Green is sleeping right now. I just want to let you guys know that I read all of your posts also. Green worries alot about senseless stuff. That is what worries me. I keep trying to get him to stop and just watch things unfold. We're in a relationship and just as he would drop anything to help me he needs to let me do the same. Yes like you guys said we had to take a risky step but one he's not bound to forget. We have to get extreme to get to him. He's a strange one Mr. Green.

I love Green. I think, I knew that the first time he and I met. I had to be with him, knowing this led me to come out to my parents. I became frineds with him in hopes of moving this further. I took him to meet with my family. My parents approved, how could they not he had saved my brother. The problem is that all of this time he was with Julio. I tried not to get in the way of their relationship but when I heard they had broken up I saw this as my chance to move in. Needless to say this was before I found out that Green is a very strange individual. Kidding, no I found that I wanted more from him and I love his friends which in turm have become mine.

Ooh I have to go he's waking up. I like this thing you guys have here. Thanks for welcoming me. Chaz!

Chaz-

My shrink says that I have an M-M-D that is P-T-S-D with a side of A-D-D and I just had the F-L-U. After all of that alphabet soup, you might think that I was S-C-R-E-W-E-D.

And you think Mr. Green is a strange one?

There is an obscure mathematical theory that states that in people, eccentricity is proportional to IQ.

So count your blessings. Green is just weird enough to be lots of fun and you are lucky enough to be his BF.

-JS

I cant believe he had the nerve to post in my blog. LOL Chaz cant have my blog. I am going to have to lock my laptop to make sure he doesnt use it.

I'm not strange just maladjusted and really happy right now.

GREEN

Oh my goodness! I was crying in the begining of that blog!!! lol Good job Chaz! I believed it too! I'm so glad everything is getting worked out. You two sound as if you balance each other out nicely. I'm rooting for the both of you!!! Good luck!!!

- Kaiten

I cant believe he had the nerve to post in my blog. LOL Chaz cant have my blog. I am going to have to lock my laptop to make sure he doesnt use it.

 

I'm not strange just maladjusted and really happy right now.

 

GREEN

uhh-huh...Chaz will just have to make his own blog then, won't he.

Glad to hear your happy!

- Kaiten

Chaz and Green,

I will do this in reverse order and in honor of Selene (God, I love that girl..and yep, I am Gay..but she is always accurate, honest and loving"). Ok, Green, since Selene is not there, I am blog bitch slapping you on the side of your head!! That is if you shut Chaz from reading your blogs...You have a bad habit of crisis develops you run away (you don't walk) and if Chaz were a lesser man he would have run from you.

So, as was suggested if you can't verbally express your feelings and let those who love you in you are doomed to repeat this and maybe next time Chaz won't be there. So, Chaz, read his blogs daily..please..and join the Forum and welcome, cause we love ya to bits....and yes, Green you know I adore and love you..this is just some tough love..I could shake you sometimes.....you can't always rescue others but you refuse to let others help you.

I like that Chaz and David gave you a dose of your own medicine....to show you that your actions have consequences when you DON'T EXPRESS what is is going on in your head and heart and if you say you love Chaz, then mean it with actions...let him in..it takes two to make a relationship work..not just on your terms...his terms have been expressed repeatedly (he wants to be let into your heart so you tell him the good, the bad, the ugly and you talk it out so you can deal with it)

How can such a brilliant person and writer not be able to communicate? As was suggested, if you get scared, write it down, email Chaz, tell him you couldn't verbalize it but you wrote it...

Also, it sounds silly but I think it will help if Chaz, David, Robert and Selene have access to your blog (and Green that means you don't shut down here too..so in the rough spots they will know.....what is going on)

Consider it part of a 12 step program. As Libidonono (and forgive me for screwing up the spelling) said you know your mistakes now get going and do something about them....one step at a time...to me, your blog is where you express yourself..so don't censor yourself here..just let those you love read it...and that is easy enough....and if they join the Forum they can....

So, I say welcome Chaz:) Just know we love you as much as we love Green and of course David, Robert and our girl Selene and I do love Chaz's family and gotta love Green's Mom....as Mikie would say big huggles to all of you:)

Selene keeping smacking our boy in his head...it seems to work!

Love ya all,

Michael

Shh I'm back Green stepped out with Selene for a moment. I have some time to talk to you guys. We do have access to his blog he was just kidding. My mother reads it all of the time LOL. I am going to get my own account here as soon as I can get my desktop set up. What I want to know is who is this Dom Luka that has my boyfriend thinking he should go to rehab? I need to know, because other wise Green is straight edge when it comes to addictive substances.

Yeah I'm jealous. LOL. Does anybody know why Green writes his name in capitals? It kind of bothers me. Hmm.

Chaz!

Chaz, fear not...DomLuka is one of the Hosted Authors...he rights great stories and we all LOVE them:)

Trust me on this one Chaz...your Man Green has it very BAD for you (even when he was with Julio) Libbodono (I scew up the spelling of his name all the time) once did a post in which he reminded Green that your name was mentioned like 38 times and Julio hardly any at all...We all knew then that Green loved you....Green was just the last to find out..

So join us and you too will become a Domaholic (and we know Green is not an alcoholic). The term Domaholic is a play on words since we sooo love Dom Luka's stories...we are addicted to his stories and can't get enough.hence the term, "Domaholic".

Sort of like Green's blogs and stories.....does it make us Greenaholics? probably does!

Welcome and its sooo cool that Selene, your Mom and hopefully David and Robert read Green's blogs..

Just call us the Green squad..we will all be slapping Green on the head when he doesn't communicate and speak up....but at least you have Selene in person to do it for us and for you:) Gotta love that girl....

Now, its time for you and Green to get married and get on with it...(Hey, the Italian Romantic in me...always wishing the best for those who are each other's destinies..and you too are:)

Let us know your screen name here so we can all say hi:)

and trust me, Green only has eyes for you....but you too will start reading Dom's stories and become a Domaholic....even though you love Green and will love his stories more...but gotta say Dom's the coolest too:)

Michael

Chaz...one more thing..I haven't a clue as to why GREEN WRITES HIS NAMES IN CAPITAL LETTERS....LOL

I have to admit it has me curious too.....so Green, what's up with that? hee hee....do tell:)

Michael

P.S...and Green how come in your profile name you have "green" in lower case letters....I just noticed that too....hee hee....GREEN YOU ARE STILL THE COOLEST...UPPER or lower case Letters:)

Heya Green and Chaz...or should that be Chaz and Green?

I just wanted to say that I couldn't be happier for the both of you guys!

Best wishes for the future...

Bev

Because I like the Capitals. LOL dont listen to CHAZ. He has OCD. You should see him with salt and pepper shakers. The pepper has to be on the left and the salt on the right or he freaks. LOL

GREEN

Chaz and GREEN..you too are adorable:) and very funny together......and very sweet...I read both of your posts and it shows...now hurry up and get married...like now...and for you GREEN...that means NOW..HEE HEE:)

Rainbow Hugs and Kisses sent your way.....and if the worst of your problems is CAPITALS and putting the salt and pepper shakers in opposite directions..you will both have a LONG LOVING LIFE TOGETHER:)

Michael

Chaz and GREEN..you too are adorable:) and very funny together......and very sweet...I read both of your posts and it shows...now hurry up and get married...like now...and for you GREEN...that means NOW..HEE HEE:)

 

Rainbow Hugs and Kisses sent your way.....and if the worst of your problems is CAPITALS and putting the salt and pepper shakers in opposite directions..you will both have a LONG LOVING LIFE TOGETHER:)

 

Michael

I don't think they can legally get married yet where they are.

But your right Michael, You two better have a long loving life together, or I swear I'm going to come back and hunt you both until you do.