MikeL Posted May 12, 2009 Share Posted May 12, 2009 I just came across this article on foreplay at webmd.com. It is written about heterosexual intercourse, but could apply to gay relationships. It contains an interesting explanation of why men often rush to the entree and skip the appetizer. Do you engage in foreplay or rush to conclusions? Please keep it clean. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
W_L Posted May 12, 2009 Share Posted May 12, 2009 I just came across this article on foreplay at webmd.com. It is written about heterosexual intercourse, but could apply to gay relationships. It contains an interesting explanation of why men often rush to the entree and skip the appetizer. Do you engage in foreplay or rush to conclusions? Please keep it clean. Damn, I actually enjoy the cold appetizers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Arbour Posted May 12, 2009 Share Posted May 12, 2009 I hate the word: suckle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Galahad Posted May 12, 2009 Share Posted May 12, 2009 Well I love to take my time on the appetiser, before enjoying a nice meaty main course! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krista Posted May 13, 2009 Share Posted May 13, 2009 I'm going to state my opinion: you may scroll down to the next reply if you must. Men shouldn't be scared of foreplay, given the reason stated in the article I mean.. lol. Of course, I have been told, "Krista stop teasing me.." and I countered with, "Honey, this is foreplay..." well hmm. I thought it was just that Men liked the "wam-bam thank-you-maam(man)" type of deal and were determined to "get" their end of the deal above that of their partner's. In a way, the explanation in the article is an eye-opener not to take it personally.. haha. So it was at least helpful. Encouragement and communication is key, more so than bodily functions. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesSavik Posted May 13, 2009 Share Posted May 13, 2009 I'm getting old. If I don't get down too it, I'll forget what I'm doing and wander off to play with shiny things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old bob Posted May 13, 2009 Share Posted May 13, 2009 Do you engage in foreplay or rush to conclusions? Please keep it clean. Eating a quick lunch at a fast food restaurant like a MacDo or having a nice dinner with several appetisers and a large Menu card are not to be compared (Visual perception is inextricably linked to how customers read a menu. Most menus are presented visually and the majority of menu engineering recommendations focus on how to increase attention by strategically arranging menu categories within the pages of the menu). For me, not only I love to take my time on the appetiser, before enjoying a nice meaty main course, but my first pleasure is to read (or imagine) the menu before "be seated at the table". To choose the "dishes" together with your host is an important part of the dinner ! And not to forget the pleasure of conversation, in which both should participate. my motto is "take your time" ! BTW I follow Mike's suggestion : "keep it clean". You will certainly be able to translate my comment to understand what I mean . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Frost Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Damn, I actually enjoy the cold appetizers. Do you realize that this made me think of dead bodies? Ew... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Former Member Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Foreplay, it's the appetizers that gets everything else going. Maybe i'm a weirdo but i'm gonna say that i'd like to keep having the appetizers instead of the main course. It'll last longer ha ha Dead Bodies eeew! I totally agree with ya Krista Encouragement & Communication you gotta know what each other likes and if your doing it right. Old Bob what a cool way to put things Totally awesome!! In conclusion i say don't rush into things take your time and see what happens. Happy Meals Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonFire Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 I like appetisers, mains & then seconds of both! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomon Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 I think after reading all these analogies...I've gone vegetarian. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demetz Posted May 15, 2009 Share Posted May 15, 2009 I don't get it.... why can't I have my tossed salad, warm buns, several appetizers and have the meaty main course... and cuddle up for dessert afterward? Foreplay is great, and fun, and so is intercourse... and the cuddling afterward is an essential. What's with all the people who skip so much of the process? Side note... it annoys me to no end when people show up and are like "i'll just have a salad." Go outside, pick some leaves off the tree, eat those, and let someone who wants a MEAL get a seat at my table. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clumber Posted May 16, 2009 Share Posted May 16, 2009 I don't get it.... why can't I have my tossed salad, warm buns, several appetizers and have the meaty main course... and cuddle up for dessert afterward? Foreplay is great, and fun, and so is intercourse... and the cuddling afterward is an essential. What's with all the people who skip so much of the process? Side note... it annoys me to no end when people show up and are like "i'll just have a salad." Go outside, pick some leaves off the tree, eat those, and let someone who wants a MEAL get a seat at my table. Ummm...was that last section still part of the metaphor or not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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