CoTT 2 House of Cards

[clochette]

Actually I'm not sure I want kid anymore. I mean ideally I do but yeah the reality is I'm 32, single, I still have 1 year of college and the hiring contest next spring. Then I'd like to be well enough installed into the job for a few years before having kids (the first 5 to 10 years you're not guaranteed to have a fixed position. I could either change school every year or even be a replacement and so going from school to school every few days). That in mind adding a partner who might not be in for the long run (and to meet him in the first place cause unfortunately they don't grow in the garden) and then having a baby would take years and I'm not sure I'd want to be a mom in my 40. Cause when I think about having a kid in my 40 I think of my mom passing at 50 and that's not something I'd want my kid to go through at such a young age. I was fortunate to have been an adult when she passed, to have had her as my mom when I was a kid but also as my best friend our last few years together. 

But I'm also thinking that I know how to take care of a baby (done that enough), I'm confident that it's something I could do alone. So I'm seriously thinking of going through the process of freezing my eggs (if there are still any though ) as the limit in France is 34. And if maybe I met someone in a few years and it's a project we want to do it'd higher our chances and if not I could do it on my own. 

[clochette]

23 minutes ago, spike382 said:

Drama Queen. 

[clochette]

I used to think my happiness would depends on others, on being a mom, having a husband and being that good family mom. Now I just want to be happy with my life, having a good mental health, enjoying the little things in life that bring me joy, spending time with my brother and SIL, my friends, enjoying my job... I'm learning to love myself first instead of having my happiness depends on people's love 

Edited August 3 by clochette

[spike382]

17 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said:

Pot, meet Kettle

But you're both of them. 

50 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said:

#SpikeyIsAPrince 

Thanks, babe!

[clochette]

2 minutes ago, spike382 said:

 

Thanks, babe!

Sorry but there can only be one and the title is already taken you can be a jester 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

[Drew Espinosa]

10 minutes ago, spike382 said:

Thanks, babe!

Rebels can't be princes, bitch.

10 minutes ago, spike382 said:

But you're both of them. 

[spike382]

3 hours ago, clochette said:

Sorry but there can only be one and the title is already taken you can be a jester 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

First of all, I didn't say I was your Prince.  Second of all, I'd be a great Court Jester.

3 hours ago, Drew Espinosa said:

Rebels can't be princes, bitch.

You just like to make up the rules as you go along, don't you.  I could be the Prince of the Rebellion. 

3 hours ago, Drew Espinosa said:

   

Edited August 4 by spike382

[clochette]

7 minutes ago, spike382 said:

First of all, I didn't say I was your Prince.  Second of all, I'd be a great Court Jester.

Of course you'd make a great court jester! Why do you think I proposed that career for you

Nicky is The Prince and he also happened stop be mine

[spike382]

2 minutes ago, clochette said:

Nicky is The Prince and he also happened stop be mine

You just like to make up rules too.  Definitely siblings. 

[clochette]

1 minute ago, spike382 said:

You just like to make up rules too.  Definitely siblings. 

Arent you supposed to be one of us too? 😏

[spike382]

9 minutes ago, clochette said:

Arent you supposed to be one of us too? 😏

I don't know where I fit in this crazy scenario.    

[clochette]

16 minutes ago, spike382 said:

I don't know where I fit in this crazy scenario.    

On top? 

[Albert1434]

Tonight, we had for dinner

Ginger Shrimp and Vegetables

[Drew Espinosa]

2 minutes ago, clochette said:

On top? 

I'm on top of everyone!

[spike382]

2 hours ago, Drew Espinosa said:

I'm on top of everyone!

You know, I was going back though our PMs yesterday and well...  

Edited August 4 by spike382

[clochette]

4 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said:

I'm on top of everyone!

I didn't think it needed to be say that you are obviously on the bottom BoomBoomBottom

Edited August 4 by clochette

[Drew Espinosa]

4 minutes ago, spike382 said:

You know, I was going back though out PMs yesterday and well...  

All our PMs shows is that your a greedy bitch.

2 minutes ago, clochette said:

I didn't think it needed to be say that you are obviously on the bottom

[spike382]

1 minute ago, Drew Espinosa said:

All our PMs shows is that your a greedy bitch.

[Drew Espinosa]

Just now, spike382 said:

Shut up, Weasley!

[spike382]

Just now, Drew Espinosa said:

Shut up, Weasley!

Okay, that was legitimately funny. 

[Page Scrawler]

15 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said:

Shut up, Weasley!

I thought that was Rupert Grint! Haven't seen him in a while. 

[Bucket1]

4 hours ago, dughlas said:

So if I'm not mistaken @Bucket1 should be waking shortly to what I hope is a glorius birthday. 

Candles flames equals warmth - best present ever

[clochette]

4 minutes ago, Bucket1 said:

Candles flames equals warmth - best present ever

Wishing you a great day of celebrations

[spike382]

@Bucket1

Happy Birthday to my favorite Australian.  

I wish you many happy years of tangling with feral lions every Wednesday. 

[Albert1434]

Just for you Bucket!