Northern Dutch Guy

Hi Comsie, if you'll allow me to call you so, like some others do. I think both your original post at the start of this topic and your later reaction perfectly make sense. You share your stories here for free. That should be reason enough to be nice, respectfull and stimulating in comments towards you. I know I'm often one of the silent readers here and I only seldom log in. I realise that because of that I seldom leave comments, say 'thank you' or post 'likes' often. I'll try to do my best to change that. Thanks for posting this topic here. And NO I'M NOT DONE WITH YOU ! So Please keep writing.

Hey hmmm why not ... do start reading now. The story is great. You'll find lots of moments with laughs on your face. And you must be one of the lucky guys in the moms affairs... LOL

OMG ... I might want to trade Kendra for mine ...!

Read it some time ago, and after seeing it here again started reading. Love the humour and banter between Roy and his gay friend in Ch. 3 and his interactions with his mom in ch. 2 Well thats how far I came this morning. For those who have not read it yet, just start reading. It will bring a smile on your face !

Loved every chapter of this story and the happy ending for Jared and Craig. Good develloped characters. Even that evil manipulative twin sister character. For without her there would not be this fine story.

Mark Just to cheer you up a bit. Posted some flowers of our garden in a gallery for you.

Hi Mark, thanks for this update. You got dealt with a bad hand recently. And unfortunately, negative aspects of real life can be somtimes so strong that it drains you of all energy. Yeah and can hit even more hard when it affects your libido. For most guys that will leed to feeling worse. Yep you probably need time to work these things through. Maybe get your Testosteron leavels up somehow ! Or checked. Just remember that song. 'Always look at the bright side of life'. Again thanks for the update and I hope one day te read new stories from you here. Love, hugs Andy G

Review sounds so good... Ahh, hmmm must find a few hours to read this. Probably sleep less tonight... LOL. Thanks.

OMG you mean I still have 3 years before my life starts ? And no ... Please don't start kicking and screaming. Hey, now we know you are a 60 yo guy...Please use your energy for writing ... ! LOL. Probably should not have posted that... LOL.

Headstall Loved the story that was on CSR... And Headstall... just see it as gossip. Probably some 'younger guys' asume once a writer is like 60 yo his health will go down !!! LOL. Hey I'm almost there as well ... Mikiesboy I hope your writing about your personal background/history means you have found peace with it. Or can deal with it now.

Nice offer and I gues lots of readers would offer that as well. I fear he needs a bit more professional help and I can only hope he has some people in his private life to help him or help him go there. Probably like a lot of people we miss his stories here like we miss Dom Luka.

I think lots of readers here miss Mark. I can only hope he has some people to turn to who help him back to being himself again. Or find professional help. His stories were always a treat and a reason to be back here 3 or 4 times a week.

Love CSR stories. Butt hmmm hey probably not start reading tonight.... ! Need my hours of sleep !

Congratulations. Loved Lupercalia and love the Frost story

My use of 'battlefield' was not about using violence. Love is (often/sometimes) a struggle. Not the love it self but how to grow further. Both partners need to work out how to function together. That proces can be a battlefield. Not because of physical hurts but stupid wrong words or wrong body language (like cats and dogs) it can lead to stupid fights. Just because of a few misinterpretid,not well chosen words. That is the battle field. The stupid fights because you do not yet know all about your partner. Still have to understand your partner. I was there done this felt that... the hurt is like you left a medieval battlefield. It hurts everywhere. I do not know if everyone has to go through that proces. Again that is my interpretation of ´love is a battlefield`. I did, we did and

Mikiesboy, unfortunately you knew pain when you were a child. That was not what I wanted to say. My use of 'battlefield' was not about using violence. Love is (often/sometimes) a struggle. Not the love it self but how to grow further. Both partners need to work out how to function together. That proces can be a battlefield. Not because of physical hurts but stupid wrong words or wrong body language (like cats and dogs) it can lead to fights. And the hurt is like you left a medieval battlefield. It hurts everywhere. The hurt is mentally but feels physical as well. I and my partner we are together since over 25 years. We have found our way to prevent real battles. Like you do with your partner to prevent or to make sure you don´t go there. We started talking about fights early before we had any ! We agreed that anyone of us using the words ´always´ and ´never´ in a fight had lost the fight ! Until today it works ! We both start laughing when one of us uses that in an argument.

OMG no You must have misunderstood me. Or my English is... not straight enough, LOL. There is no family issue here. I meant to say we all had this boy/girl meets boy and lost boy issue. We have no family issue ! But we all know and can talk about this lost love and found love again in good terms and laughs. And the battlefield is not that we fight but we know how to keep the truce/peace working good for both of us. We love each other deeply. And we know the hurt when we lost each other during an earlier break up. As does my sister with her guy and her kids with their guys. Again the boy/girl meets boy and looses him and finds him again runs in my family. AndyG

Love is a battlefield. When you start you have to learn so much about each other and about handling differences. And the break up is usually because the partners have not yet found a way to handle those or handle a fight. Long term relationships can only be long term if both can handle differences, misunderstandings, kept secrets, (small) lies, and fights. And... whatever you can think about. So the concept 'boy/girl meets boy, boy/girl looses boy' It is happening in real life as well. It runs in my family ! My sister, her two kids and I. Not all with misunderstanding and slamming doors. But all with broken hearths. Love is a battlefield. But all of us are married since many years with the lost partner. The break up, we all know we never want to go back there again ! It hurts. It hurts too much. But love also is not a won war. You have to work both to stay on the good side. Mikiesboy. For stories as a writer yes you have to be creative like start with a falling Window Washer. Also in fights... reasonal thoughts are often not there. Most people turn completely blind. Are completely blinded with rage. The accusations like 'you always' and 'you never' and say things and feel things and see things completely one way. And feel like a fool afterwards. Remember part of the harsh words. Do'nt see the whole picture. Love is a battlefield. It can be the best. If not .. It hurts.

Loved the story and the interview. Hmm, for someone who has no editor there are only a few 'typos' left in your stories. So you did quite well I think. . Thanks for this story and the other stories you posted recently. Read them all after The Window Washer.

Love the storyline and you do a good job writing how things go behind the scene. In Europe things are not this way, so it is new for me. The way you write this is very much like this can happen anyday anywhere. Love the story line Love and please keep writing, Andy G

Thanks, loved the story.. Hmmm... My lover might be a guy like Cairo !!! Even after 25 years I sometimes cannot believe he is really from this planet ! To f...ing unbelievable nice and handsome... Hey just joking ! Don't tell him that ! Andy G

Loved the story. . Short but well written, humouros and in some ways an eye opener as well. Thanks and please keep writing.

prompt 514, OMG my mum must be on this forum.... with a start like that. Thats her line...

One of the best features here is ... this way of making good stories more known. Would not have found it on my own. Just started reading and... it captured me... Ahh. hmm now I have probably no sleep tonight because... CSR... OMG is this why I start having wrinkles... much more recently ... because of this or CSR ... thanks love reading stories here...

OMG Another story I would not have found without this forum.Will start reading soon. Thanks for bringing it up !