i like this one offline i don't hug people unless i am close to them actually feel uncomfortable when i get hugged by just friends, my boss hugged me when i left and i just sort of stood there arms hanging at the side lol
but with Brian and Jay both ex boyfriends and both good friends still I am comfortable hugging them and my hugs depends on the kind of relationship i have with that person really, with Jay we have been best friends for years and our hugs have alway sbeen intimate with us hugging eachother tight our head on eachothers shoulder and we do the rock thing vic mentioned and we just stay like that for a long time. With Brian he is smaller than me and i always feel protective around him so I guess that is why the hug is different he tends to snuggle up to me and i hold him tight in my arms whilst his head rests on my shoulder my head gently resting on his head, or rather we used to lol but yeah different to different people and i guess in different moods.
I love hugging online though lol and probably do it wayyyyyy tooooo much sorry but i like hugging here i feel comfortable lol
Mark