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Hardly a poet, but I have moments of luck.. thank you. I am the lucky one.

Thank you, Puppilull . Exactly , to lock away such a person would be wrong and is like trying to lock up the wind. to be who he is, he needs to be free .. thank you for seeing that.

Thank you, jp

Thank you Reader...much appreciated.

I have no intention of trying to, as you cannot... thank you for reading and your comments. Appreciated.

As an Alpha male/top, I understand Don's feelings all too well. While I enjoy sexual play, I am what I am, born this way. I didn't one day decide "I think i'll be a top only." In my early years I bottomed, but knew that it was not my place, not me. Another good chapter, my boy.

For tim You are this beautiful creature that has graced my life A zephyr that blows softly lifting nary a hair I cannot cage you or keep you from those who love you Water that runs unfettered through my fingers You love is like the grains of sand on a long white beach Quicksilver that flows, cannot be molded or shaped Your radiance cannot be closeted or hidden Clouds that skim playfully through the blue above How can I lock up the wind? *********************************************************************

My sweet boy I wish I knew how to give you what you seek.

As a cop myself, I'm aware there are bad apples. Most of us want to help, some of us do jobs no one else will. We work tracking the scum and it's difficult work, we see some horrific things, yet are expected to deal with it. Cops are human ... Nice piece, Wolf.

It is and I appreciate your support of tim and the others online. I wish I could be here more often. I will try.

Mac, in a poem once written for me, tim described me as his anchor and the light in his darkness. .. I'm very much convinced your boy feels the same about you. You are his strength. Your poem is full of love, caring and describes the protection we provide for these boys we love. Wonderful.

Thank you very much Parker. I am very lucky to have tim.

Sweet molly-pop...it's our nature not a choice...I, we are here for all of you, as I'm sure your sure would be!

You are not old, Mac. We are protectors and caregivers. ..and it's a wonderful life.

Thank you WolfM. I knew immediately when I saw that too-skinny boy-man. I'm grateful I didn’t give up either!

Thank you, I'm quite late in replying. ..my apologies

You're right Mac, of course. I told William I'd put this out here, it's simply the right thing to do. And I know you've been 'at this' longer than I and have likely been in my shoes. I'll try yours next time.

@MacGreg @Mikiesboy @mollyhousemouse @BHopper2 @Kitt @BlindAmbition @mogwhy @Defiance19 @Jsgo @William King First, thank you all for your support and defense of our lifestyle. You all have my gratitude and appreciation. Those who need it have my support and protection. I'd like to say that William has been in touch with me privately and our discussion was amiable. I'd been reviewing the blog and frankly, wondered if William would want to engage again in public, I had decided to reach out to him, when he in fact reached out to me. I know that hackles were raised and tempers flared a little, but please remember and that includes William and myself, that this form of communication is cold and we need to sometimes stop and ask ourselves some questions before going on. Our D/s family here is very alive and supportive, let's continue that and make others who may be curious for many reasons, welcome. Thank you all, once again. M

Mr. King, this is a blog - my opinions and thoughts. I am always open to questions. You can supply your thoughts and opinions, which you did, as can others, which they did. If they differ from your own, then they do. As to my tone, well, I was rather taken aback by yours which felt rather superior and judgmental, I felt I responded in kind. Your post indicated that all people live as D/s couples do, I begged to differ and provided you with some insight. I returned to the post of yours I was responding to and found these two questions: Getting back to the Dom/sub relationship, is that any different from most other relationships? - I believe I answered that. Love, that's the next question. Why? You want to be convinced of a loving relationship. I'm not sure how I can convince you of that. tim is not my slave, I don't order him around 24/7. He is my boy and my husband. I look after him, he wants for nothing and I care for him. I am with him for every doctor's appointment, we prepare meals together, I hold in my arms at night and whenever he needs my love and comfort, I pick him up, take him places, we see films together, hold hands, kiss - in short, do things everyone does together. I married him because, that's how I was raised, in happy home with married parents. I wanted to marry also. When I met tim, he was who I wanted. On the day we married I loved him and I love him still. I need him as much as he needs me. I can only tell you, that when he is next to me or in my arms, he often whispers to me, I love you. I can only take him at his word. I went back to the first post of yours and found this question: What did you give up in this relationship? I gave up nothing. Should I give up something? Did tim? My answer is that neither of us did. We both gained what we needed and that is each other. D/s is a symbiotic relationship, I need a submissive and tim needs a dominant. If you have questions, you are more than welcome to ask them.

Thank you, my girl

Oh my boy, I know this world only too well. Your poem describes it with nearly too much clarity. Well done, tim.

you're welcome, sweet molly

I think you will find how we live is not in the majority in any way, Mr. King. You are labouring the point, as you wish to be right, and you are not. As @MacGreg says, education is required. I shall endeavor to give you a small lesson. Perhaps some insight will help. tim is my boy, he does as I say, follows my rules, wears what I tell him to, goes to bed when I say so, he is disciplined if he veers from the course I set, or if he does wrong. I do not yet see the need to tell tim what to select for breakfast. I could, but choose not to. While tim gives me this much control, I recognize he is a human being, a loving and special one. Some things I can leave to him to choose, which is why he said he defers to me in most things. If tim is unhappy with the clothes I gave him to wear, he is welcome to approach me and ask to change. I may say yes or no to the request. Recently I'd decided tim should have two more piercings. he asked me to reconsider one of them. I said no. he accepted my decision, and has had the procedure. he is happy with the choice I made, even though he was unsure. I was sure, and he trusted in my decision. Why would a person choose to live this way? The answer is simple, my dominance makes him feel safe. He knows I will protect him, love him, and give him what he needs and desires. he trusts me. D/s does not always include pain. Many D/s couples do not use it in anyway. Our life does includes physical restraints, and discipline, because it is what we both want and tim needs. he needs it for a number of reasons. We are in many ways like others, we laugh a lot, enjoy each other, share a love of film, sports, family and friends. tim admitted to being a gay submissive man on GA, after I had come on here myself and then gave him permission. This brought forward a number of others who never felt comfortable sharing their truth. I am proud of them all, and they all have my support and protection, as best as I can offer it online. Lesson over, Mr. King.

Thank you. I'm aware there was a cost to all of this...

Few understand unless they are in the Life themselves, I appreciate your open mindedness