I'm Italian, native American, German, cajun. My blood calls for revenge in the name of justice. I too feel sorry for new beau and child, and thus don't wish harm on either. Like I said justice. As someone whose dealt with familial mind games, my evil ass grandma, the adage of blood and water can only pull so far. And I refuse to pass on child abusers. I'm not happy with their father but he is by no means close to the ire and rage I feel for the walking pile of shite that call itself the mom.