One paragraph at a time:
Owen is definitely a rebound guy. Granted, he's one that actually stuck to the wall so to speak. There will be more info forthcoming on where they stand in regards to this. For now, what they have is real and valid. The question is whether or not he stuck to the wall with super glue or Velcro.
Miles' behavior when he left warrants valid opinions of not being a fan of his. However ... (you knew there would be a 'however'), going forward, Miles behavior should be based on his current maturity, not the decisions he made as a late-teen-who-has-no-frontal-cortex-thinking-capabilities. Also, Erik told Miles that Troy was in a relationship and was moving with that person. No mention of any engagement. Miles was blindsided by that tidbit at the awards ceremony.
Troy has admitted that what they felt back then was too intense. Troy’s eyes held mine. “Don’t. Don’t blame yourself and don’t feel guilty. You have a lot of valid points. I agree that we were too young to deal with such intense emotions. Miles admitted that a big part of why he stayed away was so Troy could succeed with his chosen path. Troy admitted that he would have dropped everything if Miles had returned to the ranch. Miles sacrificed any chance of getting Troy back by leaving, but he did it so Troy could be happy. It wasn't selfishness but rather selflessness.
The triangle of who does what with whom is TBD as is what sort of happiness will pan out and for who.
Great observations.