I intentionally left out all mentions of name, location or timelines because ultimately, Ceramic Dreams is the story of gays across the world. Many have faced this dilemma in the past and despite all the progress we have made, it's still the case for many. I live in a somewhat conservative country and at its core, Ceramic Dreams is rooted in real experiences - if not mine, then of those around me. At least here, the loneliness and stoicism is offset by the pretty poetic prose; in real life, it's just stiflingly ugly. Thank you, Mancunian, for this touching comment.