I remember my father working n his sermons, handwritten on those large yellow legal pads. Later he bought an Apple PowerBook 100 when it was being cleared out at Costco (I later added RAM for him and I still have the now-non-functional laptop that was designed and built by Sony for Apple). He had regular office hours every weekday, plus he attended almost every meeting that was held in the evening (prayer meetings, Board meetings, Deacon’s meetings, etc), and Sunday services. And then there were meetings associated with the denomination and other organizations that he attended as the church's representative. Add in hospital and home visits and random phone calls at any time of the day and you begin to realize how consuming his profession was. But it was a life he chose.
On the other hand, I had no choice in his decision, yet I was forced to suffer anyway. People expected more of PKs than they did of any other of my peers. In a pre-answering machine world, I learned to take very detailed messages at an early age, including a contact number and the time of the call. Children should not be seen as special because of who their parents are (either positively or negatively) – all children should be expected to be well-behaved and polite to everyone, but they shouldn’t be expected to be more perfect than any other child.