I’ve never experienced anything even remotely so traumatic! But I have been in hospital waiting rooms eager for doctors to report the results of surgery after my father’s quintuple bypass, his larynectomy, and the removal of my mother’s brain tumor. I remember seeing my father in ICU after the bypass looking absolutely tiny on the bed with all the machines blinking and beeping dwarfing his body!
We snuck my father's young colleague in with us as another brother. We had grown up with the guy and people used to joke that he was my younger brother’s younger brother. They only let us go in in pairs.
My father survived decades after his bypass. My mother’s tumor was only diagnosed after she seemed to have Alzheimer’s and they did some checking – her surgery was successful, but she never was really herself even before the procedure. My dad’s throat was operated on after they found cancer, the surgery was successful, but the cancer came back. Due to his age, he declined further treatment and died more than 15 years ago, less than two years after my mother died.