Life, if nothing else, is one of constant changes. The older I get, the more I seem to realize just how much and often those changes come to you. I think I have finally realized you just can't set boundaries and all, because the moment you do life sends changes your way.

I went away for a wedding last week. It was for a friend who I look upon almost as a daughter. I have never seen so many things go wrong for one wedding. All I can say is for the invited guests, who knew nothing but the event itself, it looked beautiful. Behind the scenes there was so much fighting, issues, and all I can't believe it. People who I've known for over eight years acted in ways I've never would have suspected. Perhaps the worst news of all came after I had gotten back home, the bride and groom had been robbed. Yes, someone stole envelopes that had cash and checks in it. The bride had jewelry stolen from her, including the blue topaz I had given her to wear. She is pissed beyond belief and has filled out a police report. Seems you can't trust anyone lately.

Then I came home to another change. Seems my father finally got to see his doctor about his cold. His cold was allergies. The end result of this was I arrived home and was handed a list. The list consists of everything he wants cleaned, and cleaned out. Yes, he says the place is too dusty and he is allergic to dust mites. He has decided that he wants to put the house up for sale so he and the dog can move into a smaller apartment. He hopes to have me finish cleaning out the house by the end of the month so he can put the house up for sale. Yes, I wasn't included in his move. I have no idea where I am going.

Life, sometimes you can do nothing more but shake your head and go with it.