Hot Young Guys Haven't Got a Clue.
I think it's one of the great ironies in life that when we are young and at our hottest, our insecurities simultaneously blind us to that fact. I've seen that with lots of guys on this site. Guys like Lacey (he's so cute) or Patrick (with those amazing blue eyes) or even Chase (with his faux-asshole attitude), who have no idea how amazingly handsome and attractive they are. Well, maybe Chase does.
I think back some twenty five years ago and look at pictures of myself back then, and remember how I felt exactly the same way. And damn, I was hot back then. Back then. I didn't know it. I didn't get it at all. I thought about the guys around me that I was most attracted to, the ones who I'd fall down on my knees for. So to speak. They really weren't any more attractive than I was, or than my other friends were. They were just more confident. It was like they'd figured out the secret, the magic riddle. They'd managed to decipher that if they gave themselves credit for their looks and their charm, they'd project that confidence, and increase their attractiveness exponentially.
I'm not one of those guys who sits around and pines away for "the old days", but that's one lesson I wish I would have learned.
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