There was a period I lived the life and, yes, there was a butler. The blissful thing about him was how effortless things became. It wasn't suits or ties or people or anything, it was what you wanted, happened. There were no expectations on his side (or mine for that matter) but if we decided to go to the theatre, we went, seats were amazing, everything was fine, same with restaurants, flight, hotels. It felt no different to "normal". Clothes were cleaned, food was available, appointments and moved or cancelled, people notified, told no or yes. After it all ended, again life didn't "change", just I did it not someone else. There was no master/servant relationship any more than me being the boss and my staff doing what was required. Equally he didn't "clean up after" me; I am the same person I was then, no better or worse, he just made everything "happen".