Excellent points, Simba Since more than one reader has commented referring to Taylor as "him", I' want to point out I was very careful not to reveal Taylor's birth gender. As the author, I'm not sure what Taylor's physical gender is, and I wanted to keep that in mind while writing the story to help me understand them. I have to be honest and say using the singular 'they' has taken some getting used to, and it still feels strange to me to use it, but I'm getting more comfortable with it. I think you're right that gender non-conforming people have a harder time than others. Thanks for such thoughtful comments.