As a dedicated reader, I agree 100% with what Comicality has said in this essay. Of course, I was laughing at myself most of the time. When I really started to read stories on GA, I got caught up in the ability to comment directly to the writer and committed all of the obnoxious actions described. @Headstall's stories were some of the first I read, and I know that I was a pain in the neck always second guessing him, requests for more, and other ridiculous behaviors. Most of Gary's works were completed by the time I read them. As a reader, I affirm the statement that readers will respect writers who do not cater to the readers.
I try hard to be more like this now.
You know you are a good writer when readers like this are empathic to a well written character and story. Readers' comments are their attempt to involve themselves. You did that, so congratulations.
I would like to suggest that instead of catering to readers, involve yourself with them in the comments that tease, joke and play with the reader and keep them on edge. A good example of the is how @kbois and @Mrsgnomiehave running battles between themselves in the comments of each other's stories. Readers get involved in comments that can get so outrageous that no one takes them seriously. Readers do remember their stories and the fun, not the fact their ideas were not used.