I, like lucretiaseeks, don’t like the term for the value judgement it contains. Some of you may remember the old legal saw- So sir, when did you stop beating your wife?
It has been a thought-provoking topic from privatetim, and my conclusion is simple. I have no idea how many people I have had some kind of sexual activity. What I do judge myself on, and others with regard to me, is we’re these acts engaged in freely by all parties, was there any exploitation, and what level of meaning or commitment was implied? Numbers, for me, at least, are meaningless.
But as I said, a fascinating topic private time. Thanks