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Hey welcome to the mad house GuiltyPleasures. I am sure you will soon feel at home

I agree. I haven't read the rest in the series yet but I really liked this one, especially the ending

Lacey... get used to it. It should be the law that EVERYONE has to be nice to you And Mike HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Aaaahh.

You know, I never thought of that HUGS HUN

It was a better explaination than I could give

Okay... so I have dipped a toe into the world of blogging because I have been genuinely confused about something and I thought that by sharing the confusion sense might appear as it sometimes does. I have been told three times in the last two days that I am 'too nice'. So what the hell is 'too nice'? I have always thought that this was what it was all about... to be as nice as possible, as often as possible to as many people as possible. Being nice makes me happy, being niced on makes them happy... win win situation. So how do you quantify too nice? Does it mean that somehow you go through the middle of nice and come out in the nasty spectrum beyond. By being too nice do you actually hurt or offend people? Or does it mean that people don't like you being nice, that they can only cope with just so much niceness from any one person? And then comes the problem... how do you limit your niceness? Are you only nice on Thursdays? Maybe ration it out over the week and have a rest on the weekend being a complete bitch to everyone who crosses your path. Or perhaps you should only be nice to people who are nice to you. But then is that really nice at all...being nice only when you receive niceness back? And how do you know if they are going to be nice to you? Do people get a grace period. You're nice to them for a few hours/days/weeks until they pass the niceness test. After that if they pass you carry on being nice and if not they get to meet queen bitch. Maybe you should limit the places where you are nice. Only be nice at work... or outside work... or on the internet. What if I'm only nice on the forum and a bitch in chat? Perhaps you should only be nice to your family... or your friends... or some other priviledged category. Or perhaps rather than limiting the places you are nice you should spread it thinner, be less nice to everyone all the time. It all seems pretty absurd to me. I think that I shall stick to my tried and tested mantra... and this above all unto thine own self be true. And I will be as nice as I please to whomever I please, wherever I please, as often as I please. And if that's too nice, or not nice enough or even not nice at all... well... I'm too nice to tell you where to shove it

YAY!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUN.

That was pretty powerful, both in the writing and the content. I for one think that it would very much be worth writing and posting.

Ummm. I think you've made a bit of a mistake there. You say I entered into a self imposed depressive time in my life, I don't blame him for leaving me. He did nothing wrong. Which tends to suggest that it was your fault but really you know it wasn't your fault because you also say Am looking for a new boyfriend, who will stand by me during my saddest times. That's the key isn't it. It's easy to be in a relationship when everything is going well and all is light and happy. However, it's in the dark times that true characters are shown and relationships tested. Everyone has dark times and it's those who stand by you during those dark times that are worthy of you. So... in short... It was not your fault. Your boyfriend was a jerk for not being there when you needed him. It's time to find a better one. Go you.

Well.... I can't drink at all so I am never going to get wasted but I like a bit of life and adventure. So I'm up for SoHo. On the other hand I also adore talking (not that you'd ever guess) so I well up for the coffee shop experience too. I am absolutely going to be there for a couple of days so hopefully I will get to do both. In fact I'm happy to fit in with any or all of the plans. For me what we do is totally second place to meeting everyone. The company makes anything we do rewarding and fun

WOOO BABY!!! Happy Birthday Hun HAPPY BIRTHDAY

As if it matters. Life is more important hun and it seems as if you have lot of it at the moment. You family sound like nightmares. Four kids eh? Shudder. My daughter and her girlfriend are coming to stay for a couple of months but they have no kids and they read my stories so nothing to hide I feel for you hun. If you want to chat on msn that's safe enough eh? Don't forget I lurk so even if I'm showing ofline give me a shout. I hope you have a lock on the bathroom door

Happy, Happy, Happy Birthday

YAY How about partying IN the museum or gallery AND in the hotel AND in the park AND... HEHE

I WANT TO COME!!!! To the clubs that is. The closest we get to BDSM in the valleys is the antics of the Rugby boys in the Labour Club on a saturday and that's more BSMD (Bloody Stupid Male Dickheads). I WANT whips. I NEED leather and I want them both combined with hot men and chains. I WANT IT NOW!!!!!!

I didn't think someone who wore cardigans could look that scary. *shudder* Very nice graduation photos. I attended my daughter's last weekend and it was mega exciting. I loved the one where you were drinking beer because your eyes a super amazing and we don't get to see them very often.

I don't have any issue reading any genre. Okay maybe I like horror a little more than college romance but I will read and enjoy anything as long as it is a good story.

Thank you darling. XXX Just you remember that what happened was not your responsibility. Stop thinking about it as such. Yes what happened to the girls was awful but a) you father was the one who did wrong - not you. That was his responsibility and the way the girls dealt with the abuse and their behaviour after was their responsibility. Consider my characters Silver and Faith in Enigma They both came from the same background and suffered the same abuse but dealt with it in hugely different ways. That is my philisophy. We are dealt the cards we'regiven and it's what we do with them that counts. What happened to your father happened not just to him, not just to the girls but to you too. Take a step back, hand his responsibility back to him and realise that your responsibility is to make the best you can out of your life What happened helped to make you the wonderful person you are today and added so much to your richness and empathy. Damn right. Where can I get one right now?

Aww thanks hun... but I dealt with my issues a long time ago. I'm cool with it all now and it's helped make me who I am and in particular the part of me that no longer feels I have to apologise to anyone for anything I am, I feel, I need or I want. The only thing I am responsible for is what I do and then I am only resonsible to myself. Do what you need to get through Tiger babe. Guilt is a destructive emotion. Ditch it.

Genre: Informal Female = 1842 Male = 1207 Difference = -635; 39.58% Verdict: FEMALE Genre: Formal Female = 480 Male = 847 Difference = 367; 63.82% Verdict: MALE Interesting.

Nothing remotely demonic or chipmunkish about you cutie Awww... you are such a sweetie Giggle.. It's probably a mouse. Let me take a look. I'll give it a stroke to calm it down and then take it out and put it in a nice warm hole with plenty of cheese. It'll be fine.

My brother in law abused me in every way you can think of between 8and 15. He died about the same time as your father and I thought I would be happy but I wasn't. It took time to build up to that. The fact that he was dead didn't take away what he had done and what had happened to me because of it. What happened was that after being forced to go to his funeral and sit and listen to everyone spouting platitudes about him, comfort eveyone pretending to care and being basically verbally horsewhipped by my mother for not caring and being comforting/supportive enough I grew to hate her too. She had known about what was happening and made me promise not to say anything because it would hurt my sister. For years she beat me up (metaphorically) over not spending more time with them, not sending him birthday cards, not wanting to sit next to him at functions. And now she's very ill in hospital and I really won't be sad when she dies either. The only thing that is going to hurt me is that it is going to rip the family apart. So no I don't think you're wrong and if you want to have a party I'll buy the cake.

I've been away so I think it's only fair that I read Matthew figures it out and comment on that before you comment on mine. In fact I might leave the country when you comment on that one

I have often ditches a book after the first couple of chapters. Usually because it's too dry and bores me. I need vivid description, emotion depth and lots of life to keep me going. It doesn't matter if the writing is technically perfect if it doesn't have Oomph it turns me off.

I don't know anything about London. I know a place near me where they rent out dormitories for