Nephylim

That is an incredibly interesting question and some incredibly interesting answers. I think there are competing moralities. Is it morally right to screw up your kid's life because of their sexual orientation (and for the record, I think that parents have a right to have those views but NOT to force them on their child OR make him suffer for it.) I think not. Is it morally right to allow your parents to do something that they are morally obiged to do (help your children do the best they can with their lives) by keeping from them something that would almost inevitably lead to them behaving in an Immoral way. I think he is actually doing them a favour in not telling them because he is stopping them behaving immorally... saving them from themselves, as it were.

Wow, thank you so much. I am really touched. I don't think I'll be living off royalites any time soon Maybe, when I become the gay JK Rowling So keep your eyes on this space for, oh, twenty or thirty years

You're a treasure, my dear, and one I hope we can share for a ling time to come. I hop your wife recovers very soon.

So I now have two books published. I have no idea if I'm allowed to advertise on here or not. No doubt if I'm not the blog will be removed and I apologize to the admin. The first book I won't go on too much about becuase it is already posted here. ENIGMA but you can get it from All Romance just by clicking on Other books by Nephylim So, the new one is The Unfairness Of Life. It's along the lines of my usual stories but a little bit different as it dips its toes into the realm of the supernatural. Only dips its toes mind. This book is dedicated to three GA members all of whom have helped me SO MUCH with this particular book Rush Renee Stevens Marzipan. Here are the links. http://www.allromanceebooks.com/product-theunfairnessoflife-668644-145.html http://1placeforromance.com/romantic-fiction/the-unfairness-of-life/prod_6606.html http://www.bookstrand.com/the-unfairness-of-life If you go to the last one you can read a big chunk of it. OH HELL I am SO excited. This is the best feeling in the whole world. At the moment it is only in e-book but paperbacks will soon be available from Amazon. GULP I buy SO MANY thinkgs from Amazon and now I have my own book on there. WHAT a delicious shiver. If you do get UOL you will notice that in the dedication I have made GA primary in my dedication and I meant every word I said. Without GA I would NEVER have got here NEVER have been published and so many of the works I am proud of would never have been published. SO, whether the blog remains or is taken down. I hope that the admins at least get to know that I have dedicated the book to them and this site. love you all Nephy

Happy Birthday my BESTEST BOY

You can complain to me hun Not having a computer sucks.

What have I told you about putting pressure on yourself. You do not have to explain anything to anyone. The fact that you have come so far proves what a strong and wonderfully brave man you are. You say that your health has not been good, then concentrate on that and get yourself well and strong before you do anything else. Stress does bad things to the body, everyone knows that. Stop putting more stress on than you have to. Like you said, you have 19 years to catch up on but you don't have to do it all at once. as for jealousy... well we've all suffered with that and, unfortunately there is no cure. The worse thing you can do it push it aside or fight with it. It is what it is. Let it be. If you're jealous of those who have seen, are seeing and will see your lovely boyfriend, well, that's just selfish. You have something rare and precious and incredibly fragile... your lover's heart and soul. Don't be so mean as to deny the rest of us at least the joy of looking at his lovely face without being cross about it. What is in the past is in the past. look back, acknolwedge, move on. Keep your eyes on the future and live for the present and you'll do fine.

Oh, I know what that feels like. Before I got Amber I had a time without a computer and I was desperate and slightly insane (YES only slightly). I hope you get your computer back soon hun

fantabulous I have SO many projects on the go. I would like to set them out in a list of goals but my passions change so fluently it would change by the week if not the day. I guess my personal goal is to finish SOMETHING. I know that you are a much more structured writer than I am so I have faith that you will achive your goals and I look forward to reading them.

Done

*BLUSH*

HAHA.I just couldn't help myself

Any of NightOwl's are sweet. Max and Josh is finished I think. My favourite is Indiana Summer but that's not finished yet. ricky's are sweet too, and funny They have younger kids in them and a lot of exploration rather than hot sex. If you want something a bit different you could try my Face in The Window or Hostage. They are kind of sweet love stories. Quounus10 has and awesome story and how embarassed am I that i can't remember the name. that's VERY long so you should enjoy that one. There are lots more.

I believe in instant love. I know there are different kinds of love... the love you have for your parents, your children, your friends... and your lover, live partner, spouse. You can't have the same kind of love at first sight that you have after being together for 10 years but that doesn't mean it isn't love. Some people find it hard to say 'I love you' even after they ahve been together for years, for others it's easy to say after a week, or even after the first time your eyes meet. It doesn't mean that the love isn't love. I have fallen in love at first sight... twice. The first time ended badly because I was already married and nothing could ever happen. The second, was also while I was still married but I was unhappy and then, when my husband cheated on me, the man I loved, and continued to love for the 10 years we were together and, in a different way in the 4 years since we've been apart, held me together and we turned our love into something more than it had been. It's all possible. Maybe not probably but definitely possible. And so, so worth it, even when it doesn't last.

WOW. What more can I say?

Can I get the same prize. You should write your autobiography. I'd buy it. You're sweet. straight (in the best possible, non sexual, way) funny and interesting. I laughed so much but it made me kind of sad too in a bittersweet way.

I'm going to be a new, stronger, shinier version of me

Thank you. I'm glad it enjoyed it

Merry Christmas hun. I'm sure that with some imagination you can find something to do with those gifts... maybe as a door stop or paper weight... or perhaps, with a little creative work, a Halloween decoration for next year, or a toy of some kind Have a wonderful new year and get on with the posting

Happy Merry Christmas Birthday

It's good so far, thank you hun, Merry Christmas

I hope it goes well. Things don't always have to be bad with exes. I am having Christmas dinner with my ex husband, Efan's dad, and his new girlfriend in their new home. I am really looking forward to it and know I am going to have a lot of fun.

Nadolig llawen a blwythyn newydd dda i ti hefyd, cariad.