Sorry to hear about your son's attitude... I do think it's good that you're at least being nice to him, even though he's unresponsive. I really hope he'll come round and be nicer to you, too. Was there nothing good about your Christmas with him -- apart from the weather? Did he do anything that cheered you up? I hope there is something you can think of... if there is, try to focus on that instead of the negative things, it might at least make you feel better.

hmmm this sounds like my aunt and her son, they spend years and years fighting with each other she tries all the time to be the good mom and all she gets out of the deal is him telling her that he hates her guts and stuff. I tell her more and more that she needs to stop trying and that her kid needs to just grow up. We were supposed to do christmas at her place but her and her son who is 30 years old were bitching with each other so she woulda been depressed and took that out on me. So i didn't go... Didnt win either she found a way to take it out on me.

I give you alot of credit though your at least trying with your son . My dad called me a few days before christmas and pretty much told me that im not a priority in his life and that, then he wonders why i never try harder for a relationship with him. His family blames me and says its all in my head and stuff. Ha ha i like that line "All in your head" one of these days i wanna go to a shrink and have the shrink say that to me too. Christmas was good though me and my mom went and spent it with a couple of her friends. Snow oh my god we have sooo much snow here everyday its snowing then freezing rain. either its nice and warm outside with lots of snow on the ground or freezing cold and puddles everywhere i wish the weather would make up its damn mind.