Well said, Jamie!
On the other hand, it's my personal suspicion that most of those things are correlated together. It's been my finding that while there are certainly a lot of dim, or only averagely intelligent gay people, there's a higher than expected number of very sharp ones.
Similarly, I think being very intelligent, and gay for that matter both correlate with being creative and empathetic (which themselves probably correlate).
Hehe, not to brag, but all those things you mentioned would actually also apply to me, and I suspect more than a couple of other individuals around here as well. (On the other hand being a gay, LITERARY community, we're probably also asking for a high representation of those qualities)
Anyway, I certainly think you're nifty and unique, and quite honestly not being 'normal' or 'average' is one of the most appealing things to me as well, but I do think there's some cross-over effect.
Good points though, as I said, I fully agree with them
-Kevin