tim, I will give you a like later when I have one to give.
Simply put, we can't always know or understand why people do what they do. Of course , that doesn't mean we aren't quick to judge them either. Judgements are usually based on our own experiences, so I don't think they are necessarily wrong, just uniformed at times.
I guess, what I am trying to say is that you, tim, have taught me to open my eyes and look at the bigger picture - don't judge abook by it's cover so to speak. I consider that a gift. Thank you.