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Things Don't Always Work Out

MichaelS36

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Like the title says not all things in life work. It's a shame, but it's true. 

My desire for our new boyfriend to become more in our little family didn't come to fruition. He decided it wasn't right for him and moved on. I've talked to him, but we'll leave it here for the moment. 

All of this was hard on tim. Especially since he'd grown so close to Jim. 

tim is willing to continue on this adventure - he has a big heart and wants to make me happy - but we will see.  

I am aware of other things he wants to explore, more related to our lifestyle, perhaps that's the best way to go. 

Hearts are nothing to be played with. 

 

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Mikiesboy

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my heart is fine, Sir ... it is Yours xoxo

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Wayne Gray

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Perhaps you'll both find what you need amidst the Life you're already chosen for yourselves.

Good luck on your path, wherever it may lead.

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Brayon

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I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out, for you three. May what tim and you want come to you both.

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rickproehl

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excuse me Michael Sir, i’m truly sorry things didn’t work out for you. it’s hard to loose a dream. i found this quote a few years ago and i want to share this.

You can’t see it now, but that thing you didn’t get will someday be the best thing you never had. Better is coming. – Mandy Hale

Michael Sir, everyone of us are here for a reason or an experience good or bad. The last line is my wish to you Michael Sir and tim - better is coming.

Please take care Michael Sir.

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mollyhousemouse

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i'm very sorry to hear that this did not work out they way You had hoped Michael Sir

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MichaelS36

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3 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

my heart is fine, Sir ... it is Yours xoxo

:) you're a good boy, and I love you too. 

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MichaelS36

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3 hours ago, Wayne Gray said:

Perhaps you'll both find what you need amidst the Life you're already chosen for yourselves.

Good luck on your path, wherever it may lead.

You're likely right, Wayne. But, I am not looking actively. We'll see, but thank you for your good wishes. 

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MichaelS36

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3 hours ago, Brayon said:

I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out, for you three. May what tim and you want come to you both.

Don't think I am unhappy. I am the luckiest man in the world. 

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MichaelS36

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2 hours ago, rickproehl said:

excuse me Michael Sir, i’m truly sorry things didn’t work out for you. it’s hard to loose a dream. i found this quote a few years ago and i want to share this.

You can’t see it now, but that thing you didn’t get will someday be the best thing you never had. Better is coming. – Mandy Hale

Michael Sir, everyone of us are here for a reason or an experience good or bad. The last line is my wish to you Michael Sir and tim - better is coming.

Please take care Michael Sir.

My, perhaps I wrote this badly. You all sound sad. I was disappointed, but Jim needed to be happy. It was hard for him, so he decided this wasn't right for him. That's all. tim was sad, but understood. 

I am happy with my life and my love. If at some point we meet the right one, perhaps we'll try again. 

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MichaelS36

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25 minutes ago, mollyhousemouse said:

i'm very sorry to hear that this did not work out they way You had hoped Michael Sir

Oh dear. It is what it is. Just life. It was good, but it had to be right for all of us. Jim couldn't make it right for himself. That's fine, I get it. I pushed tim to care and he was sad. I learned my lesson. 

But we are not unhappy. 

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Thorn Wilde

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I'm sorry it didn't work out, but glad you seem at peace with how it ended. If it's not right for everyone, then that's how it's got to be.

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MichaelS36

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26 minutes ago, Thorn Wilde said:

I'm sorry it didn't work out, but glad you seem at peace with how it ended. If it's not right for everyone, then that's how it's got to be.

That's right. I am at peace. Jim is a good man. I hope he'll decide he can still deal with us as his friends. There was no arguing or anything like that, no jealously. But he was really into tim and I think bothered him a lot. 

Thank you for your support, Thorn. I appreciate it.  

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Sherye Story Reader

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You never know what is right for you cause it always is right there staring you in the face when you least expect it! Your love for each other will find a way!

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