I'm sorry for using the term, but I didn't know what else to call it. I was on a trip to New Orleans earlier this year with a cis guy friend of mine and we watched a music performance at a park. There was a dude in a long skirt dancing. I pointed him out (he had some seriously good moves), and my guy friend said "Well, they might identify as 'she'. And I pointed out that maybe they identify as 'he' and just likes wearing skirts." We were cool with it either way, but we each had a different view of what was going on.