L- O-V-E . The deadly ans terrifying e-motion. It's stressing both River and Alec. They are like bookends, tilting against each other and delicately balancing each other out.
What Kenji needs is an able second in command he can delegate some of his business business to so he can adopt a reasonable work/life balance. They need to have THE TALK and get these feelings out on the table so they can work this out.
Well, you have to take into consideration those on the list are making a big production out of and shouting, "Look at me!" The others may well be giving, but more under the radar. In that case, the only ones who know for sure are the tax man and their accountants.
The big production thing was started by John D. Rockefeller and Andrew Carnegie. It was good PR back then and still is today.
This calls to mind a marvelous short story by Frederick Forsyth, A Careful Man. In it a wealthy English man finds out he has a terminal disease. He wants to leave everything to charity, but he knows his greedy and litigious relatives will drain the estate with legal fees and then there are the death duties. His solution is ingenious.
They certainly give away lots of money, but it doesn't really cost them anything. It doesn't lower their standard of living, and for the most neither their heirs. Some is self aggrandizing and to promote their own agendas. They do get generous tax breaks.
So I don't consider most as particularly benevolent. Some I would even classify as malevolent. But it's just my opinion.
If you recall the plot of A Christmas Carol, it did require Scrooge to have a friend (Marley) send those spirits. Louella falls short on that requirement. I wonder how that poor little dog is now.
I can hear Nat King Cole singing now.
"Unbelievable. That's what you are..." To the tune of Unforgettable.
Radically changes the tone and meaning, doesn't it?