Objectivist

I love her voice, her laugh, and just her. Hahaha. I use to watch it religiously on lifetime or Nick at Night.

It gives me a headache trying to write what i write. It's very dangerous to read my blog. You should stay away from it. It's known to cause massive amounts of depression and suicidal thoughts. You should stop reading if you have nausea, diarrhea, or constant nose bleeds. James' Blog should not be read by those suffering of diabetes, are pregnant, or have a history of heart Problems. James' blog is not FDA Approved. James

Damien? I like that name, its a nice strong name.... of course i ended up dating a damien, and that didn't turn out well for me... but anyways. maybe they're a couple. LMAO. it'd be just your luck. ^.^ you should run with them, or they should run with you James

Quite possibly. Your not the only guy with an agenda. Don't Apologize. Befriend him if you'd like but there's no reason to apologize. Unless there's something you said/did that you didn't mention. James

I got ENTJ. You are: * slightly expressed extravert * slightly expressed intuitive personality * distinctively expressed thinking personality * distinctively expressed judging personality Hehe. The description pretty much says, I'm the bitch in charge. ^.^ James

I had that same problem. Listen... they take all the correct measures to make sure that the blood that they're given isn't contaminated in any way shape or form. It's only this negative stigma that men who have sex with men automatically get hiv/aids that has that whole rule still in place. In fact, there are MANY countries (other Red Cross) who have removed that stupid (cause it is) rule. I don't feel like I'm putting anyone in danger by taking the time to donate blood. In fact, I had a heterosexual friend, who went and gave blood (she hadn't had sex with anyone), and later received a letter from the red cross telling her that blood tested positive for HIV. Well she was distraught to say the least, and she told her parents, and they went to the doctors and got her tested. She wasn't positive. But she was now on the list of people who could not donate blood. And she will never be able to donate blood, even though she's been tested and her test came back negative. So anyways. What I'm saying is you should give blood if you feel comfortable doing so. They have the resources to make sure that if you have any contagious disease, virus, to not give your blood to a doner. If they f**k up, that's on them. Not you. James

OK. Now I'm jealous knowing you'll be at a concert with Katy Perry AND No Doubt

I'm glad you had fun. Dating guys who like to club and are flamboyant from my experience hasn't turned out great. Most of the ones I've had the pleasure (or displeasure) to meet have been more interested in sex more than anything else. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but when that's all they can think of, and can't carry an interesting conversation... well they just end up boring me to death. Lol. But you may find them interesting and the sex to be phenomenal (I haven't, but I have unreachable standards). Or you may find a guy that can hold a conversation, and is a clubber, and flamboyant, the whole package. Anyways, I'm not telling you this to discourage you finding someone like that. Just don't be overly optimistic. Especially in a club. Hey! I prattle on about nothing! What'cha trying to say? James

Wow this sucks I'm sorry that you're allergic to all those things. And yes, it does sound stupid. James

I'm no mom, but I do realize that you've spent a good portion of your life taking care of others, that you've put their needs in front of yours, and you've forgotten what your needs are. But you do live in Orange County, surely there are enough activity groups in that county that you'd want to join? Like a Norah Roberts group (you like those books don't you?) or a Mom's group. Or a.. "I'm a straight woman that writes man on man love stories"... OKay maybe not the last one... hahaha. But you should take some time and do things that you like and hopefully make friends that way. but IDK, I've never been a mom so I could just be writing stuff that you've already considered and rejected. ttys James

i can barely read my own long blogs, let alone others. I'll get around to actually reading yours soon. lol. i just skimmed. Nice job :-)

I love rants ^.^

I've never had gumbo. And i gotta say this recipe looks good... along with the picture... yum!! -- oops. i dont know hwo to remove it. (a) sorry.

Yay iPhone! de javu....

Hehe... I love blogging, there's just something good about getting things off my chest, that makes me feel a thousand times better and lighter. So i definitely have a passion for that. I also like the idea of sharing my thoughts and ideas with strangers that I'm unlikely to ever meet. but that's me james

LOL That's hilarious.

I can be your new friend.

well. goodluck with that. seriously. I know someone who works in that field, and depending on the county you live in, and the amount of funding they get, it can be a ridiculously tough job, or just a plain tough job. My friend S. was working in a county, where they didn't have enough funding to use computer systems, so all her reports had to be written by hand and stuff. So that was very time consuming, she had to spend more time writing reports than she did visiting families and making sure that things were okay and stuff. So I hope you've thought long and hard on the issue. Also she was an english major. So's yeah. GOODLUCK with all that, and I wish you the best.

What kind of social work are you thinking of exactly?

i have my gay bracelet, my gay card, my gay peace sign on my keys... occasionaly a pin... or a shirt or something...so it tends to be obvious. hahahaha! also... i let my actions speak up for themselves. hehe. so yeah. No need to explain... but sometimes they ask. and so i typically say yes. UNLESS I know the person is homophobic... in which case they tend not to ask... i weasel my way into their poor unsuspecting hearts and make them unhomophobic.... but my technique is neither perfect or confirmed by the American Association of whateverness James

I'd like to state that if I'm in the billions then.... I DO want you here. So that makes three. I don't like the idea of anyone committing suicide ... also im sure there are plenty of other people who don't know you... who DON'T want you dead... but you do what you have to do.... and I hope it doesn't result in suicide.

I'm sorry that you're depressed. I don't know your stand point on anti-depressants, but then what's it matter? You have to do what you feel is best for you. from my understanding, anti depressants work for some people, but not so much for others. You might decide to take em and dislike the effects they have on you. Its your personal choice. Personally, I don't like the idea of taking drugs to take me out of a deep deep abyss of depression. I find that I'd rather help myself, but some people, need other <peoples> <drugs> help in order to get through/over/help out... their depression. I hope you're able to find the help that you need be it by yourself with the aid of a psychologist, or anti-depressants, or with the love and support of your friends and family. Also just cause you're 21 years old doesn't mean that what you have gone through isn't any more or less painful then what some person walking on the street has gone through.... or that their experience is any more important than yours.... or what they have gone through is any worst or better than what you have gone through. Anyways goodluck with your depression. James

It sounds like you just might be the rock that your friends need, and your family need. Ya know? The one person with the level head, and that is stable... if only for this brief moment in time. You want to be there for them, the way that they (friends and family) are going to want to be there for you... when you end up not being as healthy, or as emotionally or physically stable as you are now. That's when your friends and family are going to be there for you, cause thats when you'll need them most. I hope you're able to remember where the pieces fit, and remember, youre part of the puzzle... maybe you're the piece that brings them all together? (IDK) James

I agree with kevin. heh. James.

Happy Birthday Ben :-]