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  1. Right now? This page...lol But seriously... Some poetry from Petőfi Sándor.
  2. As a non-parent, I would have to say that I’d never thought about it that way. I have a cousin and a niece who are adopted. I don’t think I’ve ever treated them differently just because of that fact. My cousin is just my youngest cousin who used to be extremely skinny, but has ballooned up in size and weight in his forties. My niece is just my very beautiful 19-year-old youngest niece who is growing up way too fast for her uncle to keep up with! I think it takes an adoptive parent to recognize what that simple comment might mean. ;-)
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    First Times

    My brain had to make a major adjustment from the teen and 20-something stories I’ve been reading. It’s a welcome change from adolescent angst. The pace is significantly different too. ;-) I’d be really angry if someone was demanding that I call them back that early in the morning too. I’m a night owl and it takes a while for my brain to wake up. Apparently I used to do okay on automatic pilot when I used to work though. (I don’t rely on caffeine jolts to wake me up.)
  4. I’m surprised Devon & Colin haven’t offered Nicolae and Helga jobs at VUN.us. I’m sure they could find something useful for them to do. George would have better access to Nick’s blood and its natural anti-venom properties.
  5. The hand squeezing seems like a good sign. ;-)
  6. I’ve never heard of that sort of gift table. Of course, I’ve never heard of that sort of engagement party before either. All of the engaged couples I’ve known have registered at major department stores, but I know stores like Target and Crate & Barrel have Wedding Registries too. Crate & Barrel even featured a Same-Sex couple in their ads! On the other hand, a Mexican friend included a Filipino Money Dance in her wedding reception! One of our mutual friends was very excited to dance with her even if he had to pin currency to her dress. Later, he led us through the hand-motions for Motown tunes that were being played.
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    Legacy

  8. It also depends on your behavior. If you are polite and courteous, you can probably stay a lot longer than if you are rude, noisy, and take up extra space. Well behaved patrons are generally tolerated much longer. People who appear to be homeless (by their clothing or the numerous belongings) are likely to be chased out faster than any other group, so even if you are in fact homeless, make sure you don’t fit the stereotype appearance. People never believed me when I told them I was homeless because I dressed better than other homeless people and I had most of my things in storage so I didn’t have to cart them around with me. (I’ve been housed for about five years now.)
  9. In Berkeley, it is common for people to stay all day. But that’s Berkeley. Different rules apply there. ;-)
  10. This shows where his priorities are very clearly. His job is much more important than his family. I guess the town big shots weren’t invited to Amy’s party to be impressed…
  11. Former Member

    New Beginnings

    Aren’t there rules against dating a subordinate/superior at work? Dating colleagues isn’t a good idea in any case. Things can get very messy…
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    Chapter 8

    Maybe we need to think about a Class Action lawsuit to pay for the lifetime supply of artificial tears for each of us now that we’ve permanently drained our tear ducts! It’s a Alan’s father’s fault! (Plus he has deep pockets.) ;-)
  13. Former Member

    Breaking Point

    Bit the question is what kind of love is Luke expressing? As bros? As best friends? As something more? ;-)
  14. Former Member

    Chapter 8

    I interpret that differently. Alan’s mother is rebelling against his step-father (even if he isn’t aware of that fact) and it represents her standing up for her son. There are many other families who completely reject their children when they Come Out as LGBTQ or are diagnosed with HIV. She obviously feels she cannot do anything more public, but she is still supporting him and preventing him from being forced to live on the streets. It’s more than many others would do.
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    Chapter 7

    Another crossover? Just a pun? Or is that an imperative command? ;-)
  16. I see this story is listed as In Progress, so I shall be expecting at least one more chapter! ;-) I don’t know what Jeff’s explanation might be, but it’s possible there is an innocent reason why he had the condom. Aside from that, the main problem is their argument. They both over-reacted, but Jeff was the one who left. They definitely need to talk and, unless his bad holiday experience changed his mind, Bill seems likely to be open to talking. ;-)
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    Chapter 7

    I think people should avoid naming their sons Tom just so there’s no possibility they’d be called an ‘Uncle Tom’! Of course, I’d avoid Ben for similar reasons – nobody knows what he’s converted his rice into! Uncle Albert only makes me think of Mary Poppins or the McCartney song…
  18. Former Member

    Chapter 7

    @Wesley8890 at least you’re not leaving us with a major cliffhanger. Oh wait – you are! We're still waiting for the results of the second blood test! ;-)
  19. It Gets Better Project: What advice do you have for young LGBTQ people this National Coming Out Day? (link to video)
  20. Former Member

    Chapter 6

    I thought @craftingmom @Parker Owens and now @Dahawk were the ones who specialize in tormenting their characters! Not you too! At least I don’t wear mascara, so I don’t have streaks of mascara running down my cheeks! ;-)
  21. I’m sure you were distracted… ;-)
  22. @Hunter Thomson it sounds like you’re in a better place than when you first moved a few weeks ago! ;-)
  23. There was a theological debate/fight over a very similar issue in the middle ages… ;-)
  24. I don’t think I’m particularly obvious. I’m not flamboyant and my speech isn’t affected (not that I believe there’s anything wrong with anyone who fits that description), but I don’t like sports and I’m not obsessed with huge breasts (or chests, for that matter). But I’ve Come Out to several people who have told me they’d already figured it out. ;-) But being Out is much more comfortable for me. No one is trying to set me up with their single female friend. I’m not expected to laugh at their sexist ‘jokes.’ I don’t have to pretend.
  25. I’m sure the HRC has more info on their site, but I started a thread in the Lounge with a tiny bit of information…
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