Well Danny played the remember when card and it worked as Jake realized he really was being the asshole...Somehow I don't think Jake will settle for "friends with benefits" though...
But Ryan may be a different story for Jake.
Danny sounded awfully sure and Jake took it hard. However like most of us, I think they are still finding and sorting things out about themselves and things can and do change, sometimes in ways we can't anticipate, much less desire....