I think this is one the truest statements I have read. I'm *guilty* of this myself, having been involved with several girls between 14 and 16. Most teenage or adolecent boys WANT to experiment with other guys (for various reasons) but are afraid to for usually one of three reasons, fear of being branded as Gay, fear of physical harm from family (usually a father figure or other male reletive), or fear that they might enjoy it too much (these are the three reasons that I have encountered most).
Now I'm not saying every young guy should hook up with the boy next door just so they can see it from a gay guys perpespective but these are also usually the same three reasons that keeps people from associating with LGBT people until later in life, its during this indetermnate period where we get all of our negative programing against people who are different then us (not just gay people either) and when your that young your mind is very malleable and you tend belive all the negative stereotyping and propaganda about Gay people.
This in my opinion is where Homophobia comes from, one generations negative experiance (usually somewhere around 20 or 30 years old) being constantly insisted upon and drilled into a new generation of people even though a repeat of their experiance in todays world is unlikely. It is mankinds nature to fear, attack, and destroy anything that it does not understand.
The kind of homophobia I have come up against most in my life is Pedophilliac homophobia. I used to have to keep it hidden when i was teenager that I was gay because it would cost me babysitting jobs because my *clients* would be afraid that I'd molest their little boys and try to turn them gay. I know this sound a little radical but its true. I'm not saying that there are pedo's that prefer boys but to lump us all in to that catagory is unfair and frankly just insulting.
That is SUCH a stereotype, I'm gay and ahve NO fashion sense and I HATE clothes shoping