I should probably leave this conversation to smolder but I can’t just yet because I’m so taken by your words @LemonSoda. I hear you so loud and clear.
To use a bit of story shorthand, I’m Sammy and my Avery is four years my senior. I spent my young life doused from head to toe in splashes, waves of Avery. Sometimes it’s low tide and sometimes it’s a hurricane.
The most important thing, to me, is to weather the storm. Together if that’s possible. Never simple. Not even necessarily achievable on the day-to-day. Hard as hell, really.
The trenches @Mrsgnomie referenced will flood sometimes. The institutions we look to for help, for guidance, may do the bare minimum as @raven1 shared, if they act at all.
Thank you for taking up Avery’s side. He deserves the advocacy and amplification. He is important. Every one of us is. Perspective is everything and I am thankful that you shared yours. ☮️