PatrickOBrien Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 So...there's this guy I used to work with. I haven't seen him in like two years, but when we worked together we were great friends. We had a whole lot of the same interests, I.E. we both are big Stephen King fans, comic book nerds, sci-fi fans, we have the same taste in video-games and music. We just clicked, you know? And, I'm not ashamed to say, I had a HUGE crush on him. Like, whoa. Well, a while back, while chatting online he told me he was bisexual. I came out to him, and we've been keeping in touch pretty well, but I never dreamed I'd have a snowball's chance in Hell with him. Yesterday, he was dropping hints. At one point when we were talking about art, he meant to say, "You do good art" but made a typo and said, "You do good artist". I fired back with, "As far as I know, I'm not 'doing' any artists." He said, "You could beee". With the extra "e"s. He's an artist too. Lol At the end of the conversation, he gave me his number and told me to call him. Not in the normal 'guy' way, like "Hey dude, give me a call", but in the flirtatious "Call me sometime" way. Lol. I dunno, maybe I'm looking too far into this, but I think he's sending out some signals. What do you guys think? We're going to hang out soon, and I'll know more then, but do you think I have a shot? Either way, wish me luck! ^_~ P.S.-Did I mention he's cute? Like, really cute?
Rabble_Rouser Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I dunno if you have a shot or not but it sounds like you are getting positive signals. Think of it this way, nothing ventured, nothing gained and at worst you get to spend some time with someone you enjoyed spending time with even when you thought they were straight! Good luck! Steve
Former Member Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Definitely sounds like he's interested, anyway positive thinking!!
Site Administrator Graeme Posted January 15, 2008 Site Administrator Posted January 15, 2008 Good luck! I think once you call him and meet him in person again, you'll know if you've been misreading things. I hope you haven't
Hylas Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 AWW DANG. Looks like you're gonna get a boyfriend soon!
Krista Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Good luck!! I hope it works out. At least you know you're at least friends first. Krista
YaP Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 sounds promising to me! And the risk is minimal, as you are out to him already, and get along well... so... go for it mate ! *keeps fingers crossed*
BeaStKid Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 All the best mate... I'll try not to get jealous.... I am still without a boyfriend!! Guess, I have to wait a bit longer...
FrenchCanadian Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 It really sounds like signal to me, the 'you could be' line was one discrete. But the call me, it tells me that he's interested in you. He wouldn't have said it if it wasn't the case. I wish you all the best of luck. I hope that you get what you desire out of it and most importantly that you won't be disappointed. sacha
Adrian Michaels Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Yes to everything. Yes he's flirting. Yes you should call him. This gets a big "Awwww" from me.
rknapp Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I guess I'll be the pessimist and tell you not to read too much into it. I've flirted with people many times, guys too, and not been serious. I'd suggest hanging out first and get a good look at his body *clears throat* signals before doing anything that might jeopardize the friendship... such as jumping the lad. Whatever happens, good luck!
Benji Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 So...there's this guy I used to work with. I haven't seen him in like two years, but when we worked together we were great friends. We had a whole lot of the same interests, I.E. we both are big Stephen King fans, comic book nerds, sci-fi fans, we have the same taste in video-games and music. We just clicked, you know? And, I'm not ashamed to say, I had a HUGE crush on him. Like, whoa. Well, a while back, while chatting online he told me he was bisexual. I came out to him, and we've been keeping in touch pretty well, but I never dreamed I'd have a snowball's chance in Hell with him. Yesterday, he was dropping hints. At one point when we were talking about art, he meant to say, "You do good art" but made a typo and said, "You do good artist". I fired back with, "As far as I know, I'm not 'doing' any artists." He said, "You could beee". With the extra "e"s. He's an artist too. Lol At the end of the conversation, he gave me his number and told me to call him. Not in the normal 'guy' way, like "Hey dude, give me a call", but in the flirtatious "Call me sometime" way. Lol. I dunno, maybe I'm looking too far into this, but I think he's sending out some signals. What do you guys think? We're going to hang out soon, and I'll know more then, but do you think I have a shot? Either way, wish me luck! ^_~ P.S.-Did I mention he's cute? Like, really cute? ............Call him!! YES THOSE ARE SIGNALS!!
Masked Monkey Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I should hasen to add that he has told you he is Bi, so odds are he isn't gonna get violent if you seem interested in him. :king: Dr. Mr. Snow "Snoop" Dog
Benji Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I should hasen to add that he has told you he is Bi, so odds are he isn't gonna get violent if you seem interested in him. :king: Dr. Mr. Snow "Snoop" Dog ....I found it odd that he came out 1st and told you he was bi, was he testing waters? Me thinks he is more likely gay.
corvus Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Yeah, those all look to be very definite and very positive signals... Good luck! I hope there will be soon. Let us know how it went!
PatrickOBrien Posted January 16, 2008 Author Posted January 16, 2008 ....I found it odd that he came out 1st and told you he was bi, was he testing waters? Me thinks he is more likely gay. Well, how that came about was we were talking about books we like, and we got to talking about the Harry Potter series. This was around the time JK Rowling Outed Dumbledore, and I asked him if he'd heard that Dumbledore's gay. He said he hadn't, so I told him all about it. Then he said something along the lines of, "Thats cool. I'm actually a semi-out bisexual, so I think that's real cool." Then i came out to him, lol. ............Call him!! YES THOSE ARE SIGNALS!! I called him tonight! lol. He couldn't talk long, but we might be hanging out this weekend. (!!!!) I guess I'll be the pessimist and tell you not to read too much into it. I've flirted with people many times, guys too, and not been serious. I'd suggest hanging out first and get a good look at his body *clears throat* signals before doing anything that might jeopardize the friendship... such as jumping the lad. Whatever happens, good luck! I know, I'm not going to rush anything. I guess I'm just a little excited, lol. He's cute, sue me. As for the jumping him...as great as that sounds, I don't want to destroy our friendship before it really gets going, lol. Yes to everything.Yes he's flirting. Yes you should call him. This gets a big "Awwww" from me. lol It really sounds like signal to me, the 'you could be' line was one discrete. But the call me, it tells me that he's interested in you. He wouldn't have said it if it wasn't the case. I wish you all the best of luck. I hope that you get what you desire out of it and most importantly that you won't be disappointed. sacha That was my thinking as well, lol. Well, I guess we'll just have to see how this turns out. Hopefully he'll be free this weekend, and I'll be able to get a better read on him then, lol. Thanks to everyone for the wishes of luck! hehe I just hope it works out! ^_~
Former Member Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 I wish you the best and hope it goes out great. Chatting online is so easy to give the wrong signals. I have 1 guy friend all the way from england who i have fell madly in love with. He's straight(YIKES!) And there was times when i was on the camera and hes telling me how gorgeous i am. LOL Worse is when he will say "I heard "OUR" song on the radio today" Its "Dreams" i like the Stevie nicks version and he likes the corrs 1. He calls me Muppet. And has me reading Laurell K hamilton. Her main char Anita gets called Ma Petite and i say all the time "ooh you could just call me Ma petite" Then he'll call me a freak cuz i like guys. Smilies and all that are just hard to work with i like voice chat it helps to judge if the person really means it. OR camming cuz you see there facial expressions. But if you liked and worked with this guy before then you should have no problems. Once agian good luck.
CoLeYy Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 (edited) have a nice weekend and good luck !!!!! keep us updated!!!! Edited January 17, 2008 by CoLeYy
Tiger Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 So...there's this guy I used to work with. I haven't seen him in like two years, but when we worked together we were great friends. We had a whole lot of the same interests, I.E. we both are big Stephen King fans, comic book nerds, sci-fi fans, we have the same taste in video-games and music. We just clicked, you know? And, I'm not ashamed to say, I had a HUGE crush on him. Like, whoa. Well, a while back, while chatting online he told me he was bisexual. I came out to him, and we've been keeping in touch pretty well, but I never dreamed I'd have a snowball's chance in Hell with him. Yesterday, he was dropping hints. At one point when we were talking about art, he meant to say, "You do good art" but made a typo and said, "You do good artist". I fired back with, "As far as I know, I'm not 'doing' any artists." He said, "You could beee". With the extra "e"s. He's an artist too. Lol At the end of the conversation, he gave me his number and told me to call him. Not in the normal 'guy' way, like "Hey dude, give me a call", but in the flirtatious "Call me sometime" way. Lol. I dunno, maybe I'm looking too far into this, but I think he's sending out some signals. What do you guys think? We're going to hang out soon, and I'll know more then, but do you think I have a shot? Either way, wish me luck! ^_~ P.S.-Did I mention he's cute? Like, really cute? It sounds like you have a good chance with him. I wish you the best of luck.
Rakuten06 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 I agree with those guys, even if I'm haven't got a relationship in my life. If "the call me" signal is out, so go for it! if it don't work out, ah, well... at least you try your best. Like Hylas, I hadn't involved in a relationship yet and I'm only 17!
BeaStKid Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Like Hylas, I hadn't involved in a relationship yet and I'm only 17! Make that the three of us...
Benji Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Make that the three of us... ................. ...................
Hylas Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 LMAO Benji! The Three Sad Musketeers. :,( Ok. now I need to find the Three Vurjeen Musketeers... /me runs off Oh yeah. Any replies to this post will be subject to torching! :fire:
Jeebus Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 (edited) AWW DANG. biggrin.gif Looks like you're gonna get a boyfriend soon! Aww, I'll go out with you H. Good Luck Magento. Oh yeah. offtopic.gif Any replies to this post will be subject to torching! fire.gif TORCH ME!!! Edited January 18, 2008 by Jeebus
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