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Phyisical

 

1. tall

2. tall

3. tall

 

Personality

 

1. Funny

2. Honest

3. Intelligent

4. Interesting

 

Lifestyle

 

1. Creatively inclined in some way

2. Independant

[Tara00]

Hmm....lol Jamie..you got me thinking (I don't do much of it)

 

Okay, here goes,

 

Physical:

1) Tall (taller than me i.e. 5'9 at least)

2) Strong jaw and physique ( =P)

3) Broad enough for me to cuddle comfortably (=D)

 

Personality:

1) Honest (to me at least)

2) Thinks on the similar lines as me (our thought processes should match to an extent as to not getting into arguments over the smallest things)

3) Should be rational enough to analyse things.

 

Lifestyle:

1) Monogamous (100% into me as long as we are together)

2) Non-smoker, drinking on occasions is fine but should not be addicted to anything.

3) It'd be great if he could play an instrument. (=D)

 

[SCarlin]

Really?

 

A list?

 

Take a survey of successful relationships and ask "Knew it on first sight," vs. "Never in a million years." My money is on the latter winning.

 

Seventeen year in, I personally, "thank god for unanswered prayers."

 

Peace.

[Canuk]

Really?

 

A list?

 

Take a survey of successful relationships and ask "Knew it on first sight," vs. "Never in a million years." My money is on the latter winning.

 

Seventeen year in, I personally, "thank god for unanswered prayers."

 

Peace.

 

exactly!

 

what would have been on my list 15 years ago:

tanned, athletic, physical, dark, ying-to-my-yang, blokey, outdoorsey

 

 

what I have lived with and loved for the last dozen years:

red-hair, pale skin, bilingual Proust reading artist and arts administrator

 

who'd a thunk!

[jamiiewhiite]

Really?

 

A list?

 

Take a survey of successful relationships and ask "Knew it on first sight," vs. "Never in a million years." My money is on the latter winning.

 

Seventeen year in, I personally, "thank god for unanswered prayers."

 

Peace.

 

 

It was just for fun and a way for me to see people preferences.

Honestly it's not that serious. No one is saying it's a deal breaker if we don't get those traits.

Obviously no one is perfect and I wouldn't want that to applied for me as well because I'm not perfect either.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, even when they don't know it.

And I would like to point out, no one is making you make a 'list.' Don't act like you're so above knowing what you like. Just sayin'.

[Tara00]

exactly!

 

what would have been on my list 15 years ago:

tanned, athletic, physical, dark, ying-to-my-yang, blokey, outdoorsey

 

 

what I have lived with and loved for the last dozen years:

red-hair, pale skin, bilingual Proust reading artist and arts administrator

 

who'd a thunk!

 

awww.....sweet!

[littlebuddy]

Oooh this is a fun thread!

 

Physical:

1. Broad Shouldered

2. Stocky

3. Taller than me (over 5'2'')

4. Interesting nose (just something I've noticed when all the men I've been attracted to)

5. Friendly faced (tends to be broader/rounder with a friendly smile!)

6. Facial Hair (totally optional)

 

Personality:

1. Creative

2. Humorous

3. Romantic

4. Stable

5. Has a strong sense of self

6. Witty

 

Life Style:

1. Industrious (I think this might warrant an explanation: Someone who has a strong need to build/create things. Not necessarily associated with artistic).

2. Stable (yeah it appears in two categories, so sue me)

3. Willing to meet in the middle of most things.

4. Non-smoker, non-drinker (the latter I'm 'okay' with)

5. Animal lover

6. Loves to cook

 

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[BellaMuerte]

Physical:

- long dark hair/Black hair and i'm mush

-slender

-small build

-at least my height(5'5) or more

-not overly muscular.. yea

-no facial hair

 

 

Personality:

~faithful

~loyal

~sense of humor

~understanding

 

 

Lifestyle:

~Monogamous

[iSimba]

Let's see...

 

Physical:

1. Blonde with blue or green eyes. Yum ^^

2. Not overly or under muscled - think soccer/baseball players.

3. Warm and huggable ^^

 

Personality:

1. Funny/Quirky

2. Mushy - hugs, holding hands, random kisses

3. Inteligent/Witty - someone you can talk to about more then sports or the latest tv

 

Life Style:

1. No smoking/drinking/drugs unless very occasionally. Except smoking - absolutely not.

2. Able to cook

3. Not a total slob

 

<3

 

Must also be able to tolerate cats!!

Edited October 7, 2011 by LithePanther

[comicfan]

Okay Jamiie because you asked.

 

Physical:

I like guys shorter than I am. (I'm six foot).

I've dated heavy, thin, hairy, smooth so none of that is important to me.

 

Personality:

Has to have a sense of humor. If you can't laugh when it isn't important what will you do when it is?

Intelligent but not opinionated. I enjoy talking about everything. I love to hear what you think but don't force your point of view on me.

A sense of romance. I'm not asking for candle light dinners and roses. A simple note saying "I love you" in the lunch box now and then or hug for no reason at all keeps it alive.

Honest. I don't mean you have to tell me that my pants make me look thin or fat. I mean if there are problems you are honest enough to sit down and talk about them.

 

Life Style

Monogamous. That should go without having to be said but in today's world I take no chances.

Willing to share a life that will be good and bad. No life will be perfect but take the time to live it with me. I won't run at the first problem and I pray he won't either.

[Contest4jen]

Physical:

-Tall

-Nice eyes

-Nice Smile

 

Personality:

-Sweet

-Kind

-Witty

-Honest

 

Lifestyle:

-Educated

-Non-smoker

-Monogomous

[Abersloth]

The two best relationships I have had were with people I never thought would be compatible with me, and vice versa. I once went from hating a guy to being head-over-heels for him in about 6 months. At the beginning, I thought he was an idiot and dressed like one too, but an open mind and earnest compassion will concede realities about others and about yourself. Heed this warning, though; some of them may shock you

 

For all I know, if I were to meet a guy that fit the profile below, I could very well hate his guts. There are intricacies within compatibility than cannot be described frankly, if at all.

 

Physical:

-Shorter than me (most people are)

-Not overweight, not overly lean, but perhaps enough body fat to make them a bit soft. Nobody likes cuddling with a skeleton

-Soft features

-Nice smile

-Good hygiene and grooming routines

 

Personality:

-Compassionate

-A sense of direction in life, and a resp

-Reverence for the incredible reality of nature and the universe (that sounded like a plug, didn't it?)

-Flexible/adaptable

-Hopefully they'll have some level of interest in science, but at the very least, they should tolerate my nerdy pursuits

-Adventurous and open-minded

 

 

Lifestyle:

-Healthy

-Willing to try anything once and leave their comfort zone to indulge in new experiences

-Love for music, regardless of whether or not they play an instrument

-An appreciation and healthy respect for fine libations

-Will go antiquing with me

[WatchPatRun]

Physical:

Good hygiene

Not overweight

I don't care what color hair

Someone who smiles a lot

 

Personality:

Confident (but not cocky)

Caring (But not clingy - that seems to be my biggest turn off)

Funny

Easy going

Honest

Serious when needed

 

Lifestyle:

Active

Having goals in life

Likes to travel

[johnlaw]

Seeing as this is just for "fun"

 

Physical:

Probaby the same height as me - easier to kiss

Good kissable lips and a good kisser - a definite requirement above all :* (what no kiss emoticons?)

Good looking - but of course, this will be very subjective

Slim and athletic - takes care of himself

Hairy - definitely a bonus there. Smooth is good as well.

 

Writing that down made me too immature.

 

Personality:

Someone you can talk about life - share perspectives and gain more wisdom, not necessarily having to agree with the other, communication is very important in a relationship

Independent - low maintenance

Enjoy to be with - if you're going to spend your life with someone, better be someone you can be with

Street Smart and Wise - prefer over intellect

Responsible - supporting the stuff above

Romantic - there should be some excitement in life

Goal oriented - believe in achieving one's dreams

 

Lifestyle:

No smoking - definitely a must, sorry could stand it!

No illegal stuff (drugs, violence, etc.) - pretty obvious

Healthy - so I can be too (with the support)

Simple - live within your means and not be very materialistic

 

Now feeling sad, is it even possible to find a person with all the qualities that you like?

[AnimalMorph]

Physical:

Lean, swimmer build.

NOT fat / overweight

Short haircut

 

Personality:

Shy (Don't ask me, i dunno why. I just know i like it)

 

Lifestyle:

No smoke

No drugs

 

Simple eh?

Edited October 18, 2011 by AnimalMorph

[iSimba]

The two best relationships I have had were with people I never thought would be compatible with me, and vice versa. I once went from hating a guy to being head-over-heels for him in about 6 months. At the beginning, I thought he was an idiot and dressed like one too, but an open mind and earnest compassion will concede realities about others and about yourself. Heed this warning, though; some of them may shock you

 

For all I know, if I were to meet a guy that fit the profile below, I could very well hate his guts. There are intricacies within compatibility than cannot be described frankly, if at all.

 

Physical:

-Shorter than me (most people are)

-Not overweight, not overly lean, but perhaps enough body fat to make them a bit soft. Nobody likes cuddling with a skeleton

-Soft features

-Nice smile

-Good hygiene and grooming routines

 

Personality:

-Compassionate

-A sense of direction in life, and a resp

-Reverence for the incredible reality of nature and the universe (that sounded like a plug, didn't it?)

-Flexible/adaptable

-Hopefully they'll have some level of interest in science, but at the very least, they should tolerate my nerdy pursuits

-Adventurous and open-minded

 

 

Lifestyle:

-Healthy

-Willing to try anything once and leave their comfort zone to indulge in new experiences

-Love for music, regardless of whether or not they play an instrument

-An appreciation and healthy respect for fine libations

-Will go antiquing with me

 

Aww! You go antiquing? That's so cute :3

[DearRadee]

Let's see...

 

Physical:

1. Blonde with blue or green eyes. Yum ^^

2. Not overly or under muscled - think soccer/baseball players.

3. Warm and huggable ^^

 

Personality:

1. Funny/Quirky

2. Mushy - hugs, holding hands, random kisses

3. Inteligent/Witty - someone you can talk to about more then sports or the latest tv

 

Life Style:

1. No smoking/drinking/drugs unless very occasionally. Except smoking - absolutely not.

2. Able to cook

3. Not a total slob

 

<3

 

Must also be able to tolerate cats!!

 

lol Zachie! Why do we have the same preferences for guys? No wonder... Well, minus the cats part.

tee hee :3

[W_L]

I really need to get back on the treadmill

[TetRefine]

I really need to get back on the treadmill

 

A great investment if you're looking to get laid.

[Y_B]

I spoze these are the ideals...

 

Physical

+/- 2 inches height from me (5'10)

Athletic (Completely different from being a gym rat)

Good looks, great smile

 

Non-Physical

Intelligent, ambitious, well read, somewhat nerdy

Edgy but appropriate sense of humor

Confident borderline cocky but sweet none-the-less

 

Lifestyle

Social

Financially conservative

Happy and a go-getter

[Mikelaing74]

Ok here we go :

 

Physical :

 

Short to medium height ( I'm not that tall, and don't like having a stiff neck ! )

Short Hair

Clear Eyes

Clean Shaven

 

Personality

 

Intelligent

Free Thinker

Affectionate

Imaginative

Uninhibited

 

Lifestyle

 

Honesty

Not afraid to have fun

 

Anything else is negotiable for me