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You Get Out Of It What You Bother To Put In

Yettie One


It is a basic principle of life really. Whatever effort you put into something is what you reap in reward. There are a million different sayings that reflect it, its something we are taught to understand from a young age, and it is a lesson in life that we put into practice every single day we wake up.


Yet we never seem to do it quite well enough!


How often do we put everything we have into everything that we do? If we did, we'd be physically exhausted by the end of the day, but then again I can't help but wonder if this lack of enthusiasm is part of our downfall as a race. See I reckon that man can evolve in reverse as well as evolve for the better. It would only stand to reason that we could devolve as a result of some of the advancements that mankind have made in our lives.


I mean think about the car. It is a magnificent marvel of engineering yes, and god there are some amazingly beautiful models of car out there (personally I am rather fixated with the new, BMW 2012 Alpina B7. OMG sex on wheels!!!) but while it is a marvel of human ingenuity it stopped us from walking. When I moved to the UK I didn't have enough money to have a car for the first two years. I learnt to rely on public transport and my two pins. I don't think I'd ever walked so much in my life, but I was fit, healthy and loved it. Now I got a car, I've been able to travel to some amazing places, see some wonderful things, have the freedom to do what I want when I want, but I don't walk anymore. :(


It's the same with food. KFC. Jeesh I got a massive soft spot of the Colonel's Chicken. But what with microwave meals, tinned food, pre cooked this, and ready made that, that fine tradition of growing what we eat, eating what we need, and enjoying all of it has kind of withered away. Fresh fruit salad! When was the last time I had a proper real fresh fruit salad. Yeah, I might have one now that has one or two fresh fruits in it, but so much of it is tinned. The last time I personally prepared a fully fresh fruit salad if I am totally honest was over 13 years ago in Africa, and that reality is pretty damn sad! :/


Once upon a time we built pyramids to honour our royalty. Now we build fountains that don't work properly and are shrouded in controversy. The amazing thing was we built them without cranes and massive earth moving machinery. You gotta ask yourself, could we do the same thing today? Maybe if we had all those slaves and people to work on it ey! The sad reality lies I believe in that building a pyramid would be seen as far too much effort for securing the after life of some king or queen.


From the top going down, society has changed. Of course there is nothing wrong with that, and it is only fair to expect people to change as things have gotten easier, as man kind have made discovery after discovery to improve our lives and our understanding of the world we live in, but I cannot help but ponder if all this development is in man's best interest.


Our planet has just gone over the 7 billion people mark. Over 100 thousand people will die in the world today, but over 300 thousand will be born. This year already we've lost 2,7 million hectares of green forest world wide, and we have 15,122 days left until the world runs out of oil. (source Worldometers) Is all the knowledge we gain the knowledge we really need? Does the interest of our planet really lie at the heart of our hunger for knowledge?


It is a humbling thought. When I look at the Worldometers page, it brings home in very real terms how little we have, and how foolishly we squander it. Maybe our greed or selfishness outstrips our design for life. We love our lives of luxury, don't get me wrong, I am just as guilty of this as anyone else. I love my computers, and my electric fan, the car in my drive, and a mircowave meal when I'm too lazy too cook. I read about a community over the weekend who have decided to forsake the comforts of the world, and live what they describe as an organic lifestyle, surviving off the land in every way possible. I was kind of jealous of them in a way, but I don't think i'd survive without my internet connection or laptop.


There is a movie out at the moment called 7 Days in Havana. Josh Hutcherson (Lush 0:) ) stars in it. I was trying to find out a bit about the movie, and watched an interview he did about the movie. In the interview he says that while he was on location in Havana he met with people who had so little in life, were so poor compared with standards he was accustomed too, and yet were so alive, vibrant and happy. It kind of struck me. We have all these things in our lives, yet are not content. If I asked myself, "Are You Happy", I'd have to say no.


Maybe we've lost touch with reality. No, maybe I've lost touch with reality. Which brings me back to my original thought. We get out of life what we put into it. Maybe I'm putting emphasis on things that are not important, giving attention to stuff that could be put on the back burner, and not really putting enough into the things that bring happiness, contentment and fulfilment.


For the last few days I've struggled with paying attention to stuff. I've been mad at life and mad at the world. For various reasons, and stuff going on in my own mind, and its affected me, but I've come to the conclusion that you can either sit down and let life whip you, or you can get back up and give it everything and try make it. After all, like I said, you only get out of it what you put in.


Thought for today - "A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master gardener of his soul, the director of his life." - James Allen


Song for today - I Won't Give Up by Jason Mraz

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Your title pretty much says it Yettie, and we all tend to forget that, and worry about mundane things that don't really matter, when we could be thinking and doing something that would help or move us along in life. My dad always told me to "pick my battles", and I find myself forgetting this, and getting mad over things that are really of no matter when I could be using that energy to do something positive. Loved this entry

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Sometimes we tend to confuse our priorities. Like the time when i was down and out, i had just been retrenched, looking for a new job in the nursery industry. I lived on a small holding just north of Johannesburg. The owner approached me one day and said I could grow vegetables in his disused hothouse to sell on the side of the road. I didn't take the opportunity. Instead, I chose to find a job with a gaurantee of a monthly pay cheque. I often wonder had i chosen the hothouse, maybe i would have owned my very own plant nursery today. Opportunities come and go and many of us dont act on them.


Many of us have lost touch with nature. We just don't care. I read in magazines of people who live an environment friendly life, but i have never met the guy who has it all: growing his own vege patch, fruit trees, natural water, enviro cooling in his house, solar heating, solar cooling, maybe Mark92 has come closest to this way of living.

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The one who answers to your blog once lived loss of everything that made life pleasant, his fortune, his friends, his hopes.


It's no use crying over one's fate.. The first observation I made is that we can live without all these advantages and we still have enough to pluck up courage and rebuild our lives.


Life has taught me that nothing is ever lost. What matters is what we really want to make of our lives.

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Too true, I've seen some tough days in the past couple of years, things happening so fast, i kept whipping back my head and going like 'did that just happen to me' and when it really hits me, I'd be down for almost months before I can get on my feet again and hit back. It's tough, it's never easy to face life and what it gives you, but never giving up is the best.


Surprisingly, I have had a fresh salad lately..ah huh, visiting the farmer's market is an awesome thing, you find all these delish veggies. I think you need to go grocery shopping Yettie, in a supa with some greens. :)

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