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1 hour ago, spyke said:

I think his long lost sister is my dentist. LOL.

Sorry you're having to go through all of that.

haha good!    thanks, the antibotics are killing me.. but once the infection is gone .. I'll be rebuilt again.. lol

 

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2 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

All your food sounds delish.  Michael cooks once a week too, it's called order a pizza!  Which is fine with me. lol

mmmm, pizza 

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6 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

It's somewhat better. The family with 5 kids in a 2 bedroom above were moved to a 3 bedroom on another floor. i'm sure they are annoying other people as we speak.

The new people have one kid. We've been up to visit them to ask them stop bouncing balls on the floor.  That's somewhat better. We know the kid's gonna run around.. he's 4 but seriously people have some respect for your neighbours.  Anyway... you are kinda now trapped where you are due to rents .. who can afford to move anymore?

Hopefully, the new family are more reasonable (and sane) then their predecessors. 

For you and Mike, Im very glad they’ve been moved along, though I pity the people that have to put up with them now.

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3 hours ago, mollyhousemouse said:

mmmm, pizza 

i wont be able to eat that for a bit .. but that's okay ... there's other stuff to eat.

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23 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

Well, a visit to the dentist resulted in my back on antibiotics and an appointment to have my fake rebar tooth pulled. Hopefully after 6 weeks of healing i will be able to get a replacement on a Maryland Bridge. 

Ugh...

 

oh, and i know how much you just LOVE the dentist. i do hope it's over soon and all heals well. 

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7 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

This is my little indoor garden.. the big spider plant at the back, it about ten years old.  If you can make the picture bigger the two smaller spider plants in the clay pot and the small black pot tucked into the big plant are all babies ... i cleaned it up the other day and there were another 8 spiderlettes but i cut them off and threw them out.  More will come along with some pretty white flowers. 

The square pan has  oregano, thyme, parsley and basil.

 

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That is beautiful, always good to have flowers indoors. I love the mini herb garden.

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Have a good day you lot!  Happy Friday.

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things i have learned this week

being good at something might make someone else mad, it also might not be good enough for others

good friends are ALWAYS just a text away

feeling like you have to do it all yourself is a "trauma response". figuring out what the trauma was is hard work

asking for help is hard, but the reward for doing it was some peace

anyway, happy Friday 

 

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15 minutes ago, mollyhousemouse said:

things i have learned this week

being good at something might make someone else mad, it also might not be good enough for others

good friends are ALWAYS just a text away

feeling like you have to do it all yourself is a "trauma response". figuring out what the trauma was is hard work

asking for help is hard, but the reward for doing it was some peace

anyway, happy Friday 

 

It sounds like you're hanging in there and figuring things out. That's good. you're worth spending time on, and you're doing that.

My dad once worked at a site with a bunch of union welders (I like most unions, so this isn't a dig on them). He was self-taught, had no certifications, did a far better job, and worked faster than any of the other guys on the site. They complained about him repeatedly, and upon investigation, the manager realized they were pissed that Dad was showing them up. The manager asked if Dad could "just slow down a little." And Dad laughed in his face. "Instead of asking me to slow down, have your boys step it up."

It's just amazing to me that people are threatened by competence. And as for those who are never pleased, no matter what? Well ... some folks base their personality on never being happy. That's not your problem, it's theirs. I know you do your best, and if that's not enough, then they don't deserve you.

Happy Friday, molly.

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43 minutes ago, mollyhousemouse said:

asking for help is hard, but the reward for doing it was some peace

this is true..  but i'm learning to do it .. and most people don't sit there and think.. OMG why is tim asking me that? Shouldn't he know that?    They just help you.

i know when i see others winning something that i want.. i don't hate them, i ask myself what do i need to do to get that thing.  That's the mature response. 

Hating someone for doing well is self-defeating and gives people the justification to not try. They are afraid to fail and so they never move on at all. 

There are people at work, that work differently from me.  They take naps during the day, they watch Netflix.. it drives me nuts, but I've also learned to keep my eyes on my own plate and just worry about my own job and if i can look at myself in the mirror and say.. you did good today, tim.

You're a hard worker. You care. You try... no one out there is perfect and you don't have to be either xoxoxxoxooxo

 

 

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12 hours ago, Wayne Gray said:

It sounds like you're hanging in there and figuring things out. That's good. you're worth spending time on, and you're doing that.

My dad once worked at a site with a bunch of union welders (I like most unions, so this isn't a dig on them). He was self-taught, had no certifications, did a far better job, and worked faster than any of the other guys on the site. They complained about him repeatedly, and upon investigation, the manager realized they were pissed that Dad was showing them up. The manager asked if Dad could "just slow down a little." And Dad laughed in his face. "Instead of asking me to slow down, have your boys step it up."

It's just amazing to me that people are threatened by competence. And as for those who are never pleased, no matter what? Well ... some folks base their personality on never being happy. That's not your problem, it's theirs. I know you do your best, and if that's not enough, then they don't deserve you.

Happy Friday, molly.

thanks Wayne. it's been exhausting and frustrating, and demoralizing and eye opening. 
hope you are doing well
 

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11 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

this is true..  but i'm learning to do it .. and most people don't sit there and think.. OMG why is tim asking me that? Shouldn't he know that?    They just help you.

i know when i see others winning something that i want.. i don't hate them, i ask myself what do i need to do to get that thing.  That's the mature response. 

Hating someone for doing well is self-defeating and gives people the justification to not try. They are afraid to fail and so they never move on at all. 

There are people at work, that work differently from me.  They take naps during the day, they watch Netflix.. it drives me nuts, but I've also learned to keep my eyes on my own plate and just worry about my own job and if i can look at myself in the mirror and say.. you did good today, tim.

You're a hard worker. You care. You try... no one out there is perfect and you don't have to be either xoxoxxoxooxo

 

 

thanks tim
i think i'm seeing the light at the end of the tunnel

xoxoxo

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45 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

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I like this one.

It's a fresh week and I'm optimistic that it will be better than last. 

Have a good week everyone. 

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Excuse me Good Sirs and DiC friends.

was sent this by a friend thought i would share this.

going thru another health challenge this time i broke my right wrist and it is in a cast. want to slow someone down. yes, i’m right handed so trying to do everything with my Left hand takes twice as long.

i hope things are going better for you.

Enjoy the day.

Take care of yourself

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@rickproehl I’m sorry to hear you broke your right wrist. I hope it heals quickly. I’m very much a righty, so I feel for you having to rely on your left hand to do things. 

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On 5/12/2023 at 1:32 PM, Mikiesboy said:

You're a hard worker. You care. You try... no one out there is perfect and you don't have to be either xoxoxxoxooxo

 

 

i agree with this .. right or wrong if at the end of the day i feel that i did my best then i have had a good day.

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34 minutes ago, rickproehl said:

Excuse me Good Sirs and DiC friends.

was sent this by a friend thought i would share this.

going thru another health challenge this time i broke my right wrist and it is in a cast. want to slow someone down. yes, i’m right handed so trying to do everything with my Left hand takes twice as long.

i hope things are going better for you.

Enjoy the day.

Take care of yourself

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I hope you heal quickly. I can relate. I dislocated my right shoulder once and couldn't use that arm for several weeks. It's hard. Get better soon!

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7 hours ago, rickproehl said:

i’m right handed so trying to do everything with my Left hand takes twice as long.

OH NO!  Gosh rick, you need to slow down, stop doing cartwheels and stuff!!  Seriously though, GET WELL SOON!! 

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