What do you expect when people who have faced massive prejudice over their PERSONAL choices take the time to try and answer your curiosity and are met with angry posts like this?
I am straight, married 35 years, and yes have a dominant personality. My husband is a tad on the submissive side, but guess what? MOST GOOD MARRIAGES, both straight and gay, are like this. Having complimentary personalities is WHY relationships work. Two dominant people will find themselves clashing. People who live D/s lifestyles just take things much further than people like hubby and I do.
This may be best. You do not really seem open to learning about the lifestyle, and come across as increasingly judgemental with each paragraph.