Can we make a distinction between 'possession' and 'connection'?
As chrysoprase so insightfully explains, we use the same terms for both and make our own interpretations.
In our enlightened societies we mostly hear the 'connection' usage and equating that with 'possession' is a step too far.
But, and I think this is a big 'But', the 'possession' aspect is also a very serious fact of life.
Here in Australia the prevalence of domestic violence has become a major public issue in recent times with a shocking amount of suicide and family trauma coming to light.
Slavery is still part of our world and many cultures have the 'possession' of wives and children as their norm.
W_L's point about 'ownership' is significant and one we should be aware of.