I'm glad things are working out for all of you ♥️

Polyamory, like bisexuality, does not mean you're a slut who just wants to sleep with everyone. I wish more people understood that.

But for now it feels good, and it feels right

Well then for now it IS right.

If more developes, I hope that becomes right too.

💖  love is love.  i am happy, with you .. and with Jim. It's a good thing, pure. And as You say, we will see where we end up. xo

37 minutes ago, Fae Briona said:

I'm glad things are working out for all of you ♥️

Polyamory, like bisexuality, does not mean you're a slut who just wants to sleep with everyone. I wish more people understood that.

Very true, Fae.  People like to believe the worst … let them while sit in their own misery while we go out and dance. Thanks for your comments and insight. 

37 minutes ago, Kitt said:

But for now it feels good, and it feels right

 

Well then for now it IS right.

I more developed, I hope that becomes right too.

 

 

Thanks very much Kitt. I appreciate your support and comments. 

37 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

💖  love is love.  i am happy, with you .. and with Jim. It's a good thing, pure. And as You say, we will see where we end up. xo

Indeed, thanks, tim.  It is pure as you say … a wonderful thing. 

It’s a mystery to me how quick we are to judge things that don’t affect our own lives.  How religion can be used as a weapon to “prove” wrongness.  That we begrudge the choices others make along the path to happiness.

Don't let anyone do that to you three.  Enjoy yourselves and one another.  Have fun, and if it happens let love bloom with Jim.  He deserves that, and so do you both.

i am so happy for all three of you, Michael Sir!
to be able to share love and help in the healing of another human is a wonderful thing! 

it's my hope that it continues to go well and grow into a deeper relationship and you all continue to find joy and happiness with each other.

“But for now it feels good, and it feels right.”

That’s all there is to it!  Mazel Tov! 😊

Ridiculous that the world is such a crappy, judgmental place that such a warning should be in any way necessary... This is excellent news and I wish you all the happiness in the world! Really hope it works out for the three of you. Sharing the love is a wonderful feeling. ❤️ 

Your "WARNING … if you are closed minded, cannot deal with things outside your own experience or what you think is 'normal', or believe that relationships with more than two people are wrong. DO NOT READ THIS."  was so intriguing I had to read your post, even if this is completely outside my own experience, as you say. I do believe that relationship with more than 2 people are  probably much harder. But what do I know , I'm a loner who loves cats and reading. Some people don't have enough love in them for one person, let alone more.

I won't say I really understand any of this, but that doesn't stop me for being ridicoulosly happy for you all and wish you all the best. Especially Tim, he is my darling from afar, sorry sir Michael 🖖 

29 minutes ago, Kapucinski said:

Your "WARNING … if you are closed minded, cannot deal with things outside your own experience or what you think is 'normal', or believe that relationships with more than two people are wrong. DO NOT READ THIS."  was so intriguing I had to read your post, even if this is completely outside my own experience, as you say. I do believe that relationship with more than 2 people are  probably much harder. But what do I know , I'm a loner who loves cats and reading. Some people don't have enough love in them for one person, let alone more.

I won't say I really understand any of this, but that doesn't stop me for being ridicoulosly happy for you all and wish you all the best. Especially Tim, he is my darling from afar, sorry sir Michael 🖖 

The fact you read this shows you're open enough to care about people who are different from yourself. That's a beautiful thing and welcome.

I've never been a jealous person, which makes this all the easier. 

I'm glad to hear you care for tim … no need to be sorry at all, I appreciate it very much. 

1 hour ago, Reader1810 said:

My mind can’t come up with something profound or clever to say, so I’ll just say this: 

 if this relationship works for you all, run with it. Naysayers be damned. 

That works!  Thanks Reader!

1 hour ago, Wayne Gray said:

It’s a mystery to me how quick we are to judge things that don’t affect our own lives.  How religion can be used as a weapon to “prove” wrongness.  That we begrudge the choices others make along the path to happiness.

Don't let anyone do that to you three.  Enjoy yourselves and one another.  Have fun, and if it happens let love bloom with Jim.  He deserves that, and so do you both.

I've never been a religious person. But I'm sure I've heard this: Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.

That works but I prefer: Keep your eyes on your own plate. 

So far things are great. Jim doesn't live with us and we are talking about that yet but we enjoy each other and seeing the relationship between tim and Jim is nice to watch. 

Thanks Wayne. 

1 hour ago, mollyhousemouse said:

i am so happy for all three of you, Michael Sir!
to be able to share love and help in the healing of another human is a wonderful thing! 

it's my hope that it continues to go well and grow into a deeper relationship and you all continue to find joy and happiness with each other.

 

Thanks very much, molly. We hope that's how things go. xo

1 hour ago, Defiance19 said:

 

“But for now it feels good, and it feels right.”

That’s all there is to it!  Mazel Tov! 😊

 

Right? Thanks, Def!

55 minutes ago, Thorn Wilde said:

Ridiculous that the world is such a crappy, judgmental place that such a warning should be in any way necessary... This is excellent news and I wish you all the happiness in the world! Really hope it works out for the three of you. Sharing the love is a wonderful feeling. ❤️ 

I agree. But frankly, I enjoyed writing the warning … I think you can tell why. 

Thanks also for the good wishes. One day at a time. 

30 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said:

I agree. But frankly, I enjoyed writing the warning … I think you can tell why. 

Thanks also for the good wishes. One day at a time. 

Yes, your warning was kind of lovely 

I guess I too was intrigued - "if you are closed minded,.." so of course I read it, and because I recognised your name. A ménage à trois, I always thought it could work as a relationship because if three people are equal then there would be no arguments, you know, two for, one against. That is a bit naive, but I was younger when I thought that. Still it's always kind of fascinated. To make it last, everyone has to love everyone, and then I think it's difficult, for me it never lasted much more beyond one night. The interplay of emotions is like getting battered in a storm, the waves roll around in all directions, you get hit from all sides. On the crest of the waves it's incredible, but when you tumble down its rude. I love the courage you show to be open, to share, it says a lot about you as a person. There is nothing wrong with anything you're doing and discussing stuff in the open is really great. Like that, the rest of us see we are not weird and abnormal either, just part of the spectrum. 

5 hours ago, Talo Segura said:

I guess I too was intrigued - "if you are closed minded,.." so of course I read it, and because I recognised your name. A ménage à trois, I always thought it could work as a relationship because if three people are equal then there would be no arguments, you know, two for, one against. That is a bit naive, but I was younger when I thought that. Still it's always kind of fascinated. To make it last, everyone has to love everyone, and then I think it's difficult, for me it never lasted much more beyond one night. The interplay of emotions is like getting battered in a storm, the waves roll around in all directions, you get hit from all sides. On the crest of the waves it's incredible, but when you tumble down its rude. I love the courage you show to be open, to share, it says a lot about you as a person. There is nothing wrong with anything you're doing and discussing stuff in the open is really great. Like that, the rest of us see we are not weird and abnormal either, just part of the spectrum. 

I don't think it always works. This seems to be because I know both my husband and Jim very well. I've made sure they have time together to get to know each other, without me around also. There is a bond growing there as I believe there needs to be. They genuinely like each other and are very sweet together. There cannot be jealousy and honesty is paramount. Being a D/s couple tim and I have that already, it's a must for us. 

And we are moving at Jim's pace as he was the hurt one coming in. He needs time. But I am hopeful we will find what works for all of us. 

Thanks for your comment, Talo. 

I wish all three of you happiness, Mike. You and tim (and Jim) are deserving of that. 
 

Different strokes for different folks. As long as it works for everyone, that's all that matters. 

3 hours ago, MacGreg said:

I wish all three of you happiness, Mike. You and tim (and Jim) are deserving of that. 
 

Thank you, Mac. We, you, others, are all deserving of happiness. What form that takes is up to each person, but we deserve it. Thanks.  I don't know yet if this will be permanent, or once he's okay if, Jim will move on. For now, it's good.