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Triggers are anything that remind someone of previous trauma. To be triggered is to have an intense emotional or physical reaction, such as a panic attack, after encountering a trigger.

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1 hour ago, Carlos Hazday said:

Nobody complained when I had a character in a three way with two other guys and a couple of chapters later had him eat a girl out and then go at it with her. Well, my editor did say "Yuck" or something like that.

I'll never understand the 'yuck' reaction, tbh... It's strange to me. I don't like raw bell pepper, but I don't say 'yuck' when I see other people eating it.

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1 hour ago, Reader1810 said:

Triggers are anything that remind someone of previous trauma. To be triggered is to have an intense emotional or physical reaction, such as a panic attack, after encountering a trigger.

This is a very important point. It's also worth noting that, technically, the word trigger warning isn't used anywhere on this site in an official capacity (as far as I'm aware, anyway). The submission guidelines say stories must 'include written warnings in the story note and each chapter note that contains questionable content  so readers sensitive to these subjects will not be unaware of the story's themes.' Trigger isn't mentioned. That's a matter of interpretation. I always call mine content warnings rather than trigger warnings.

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9 minutes ago, Thorn Wilde said:

This is a very important point. It's also worth noting that, technically, the word trigger warning isn't used anywhere on this site in an official capacity (as far as I'm aware, anyway). The submission guidelines say stories must 'include written warnings in the story note and each chapter note that contains questionable content  so readers sensitive to these subjects will not be unaware of the story's themes.' Trigger isn't mentioned. That's a matter of interpretation. I always call mine content warnings rather than trigger warnings.

It’s more the definition than the actual term that is important here.

I’ve seen these type of warnings on chapters I’ve reading as a way of letting the reader know something they don’t want to read - for whatever reason really - is happening in that particular chapter.  A tag just tells you it’s in the story, but not where it is, so a warning at the beginning of the pertinent chapter is very helpful. 

A warning at the start of a chapter that something is going to happen - eg. an assault, rape etc.- allows a reader who might be triggered by reading that type scene to skip that passage, but be able to read the rest of the story.  

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1 hour ago, Reader1810 said:

It’s more the definition than the actual term that is important here.

I’ve seen these type of warnings on chapters I’ve reading as a way of letting the reader know something they don’t want to read - for whatever reason really - is happening in that particular chapter.  A tag just tells you it’s in the story, but not where it is, so a warning at the beginning of the pertinent chapter is very helpful. 

A warning at the start of a chapter that something is going to happen - eg. an assault, rape etc.- allows a reader who might be triggered by reading that type scene to skip that passage, but be able to read the rest of the story.  

Exactly. 

My comment was more related to the fact that the thing that appears to bother people a lot of the time is the term 'trigger warning' itself, partly because they have a mistaken understanding of what a trigger is, which you explained very well (and which was why I quoted you). The term seems to cause offence more than the concept of placing warnings on content, which is something that has been done on TV, for instance, for years without any significant number of people getting up in arms about it. The term 'trigger warning' seems to carry baggage, which is why a lot of people no longer use it, opting for 'content warning' instead. Given how misused the word 'trigger' has been in the past few years (no doubt related to the misuse of terms related to mental illness as insults or jokes, but that's a bigger discussion), I suppose it's not surprising that people want to distance themselves from it, so as not to provoke offence. 

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1 hour ago, Thorn Wilde said:

I'll never understand the 'yuck' reaction, tbh... It's strange to me. I don't like raw bell pepper, but I don't say 'yuck' when I see other people eating it.

Different folks, different approaches. I've heard more than one lesbian say it about penises. I often say it about stories before I stop reading.

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I think that including Content Warnings (where appropriate) is a matter of politeness and good behavior. But some people think that their own comfort should override anyone else’s comfort. Just like some people insist on wearing colognes or perfumes in places where they have been warned that people with chemical sensitivities will be.

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7 hours ago, droughtquake said:

I think that including Content Warnings (where appropriate) is a matter of politeness and good behavior. But some people think that their own comfort should override anyone else’s comfort. Just like some people insist on wearing colognes or perfumes in places where they have been warned that people with chemical sensitivities will be.

What type of content requires these warnings? While some may want them on a certain subject, others could feel differently. At which point do we cross over into the ridiculous? Some might object every time a character calls another one asshole. Or they might object to someone masturbating? Should I add a warning whenever one of my characters calls someone else 'N-word', or fag? Those words are offensive and could be traumatic to some. When is enough enough?

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Because Google lost its cool when I used the actual word I hve now substituted N-word for. How fricking appropriate.
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31 minutes ago, Carlos Hazday said:

What type of content requires these warnings? While some may want them on a certain subject, others could feel differently. At which point do we cross over into the ridiculous? Some might object every time a character calls another one asshole. Or they might object to someone masturbating? Should I add a warning whenever one of my characters calls someone else 'N-word', or fag? Those words are offensive and could be traumatic to some. When is enough enough?

I recall reading somewhere (not here) about how people were taking "trigger warnings" too far.  The example was a writer who put a trigger warning for some time of animal up on their story.  I think it might have been monkeys.  

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Making light of someone else’s trauma is rude.

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4 minutes ago, droughtquake said:

Making light of someone else’s trauma is rude.

Nice sentiment. But It doesn't answer the question of when is enough enough.

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2 hours ago, Carlos Hazday said:

While some may want them on a certain subject, others could feel differently. At which point do we cross over into the ridiculous?

The link to the video I had is dead now, but it was on a discussion at a writer's convention on some trigger warnings "some" readers were demanding to be used. The list had over three-hundred entries, on items, sayings, animals, and situations, that people said were offensive. Some of which was pretty common items like glass bottles, lamp shades, and a situation of someone folding clothes while not saying anything.

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In the classical Greek plays, the events that we might consider triggering today all take place off stage.  A character then comes on and describes the event, in a way that gives enough distance for the audience to be able to focus on the character's reaction to the event, rather than on the event directly.  So Oedipus blinds himself off-stage, we hear about it second-hand, and by the time we see Oedipus again, he's all bandaged up, thus robbing the act of self-mutilation of most of its immediacy.

So the question becomes, what is the author's reason for including such a scene in the work?  How is it handled, how graphic the description?  What response does the author wish to evoke from the reader?  Context is all.

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