Top or Bottom

[KJames]

I appreciate that being a woman it is a differnt ball game<snip!>

 

You have a singular talent for making choice picks of words...

[Nephylim]

You have a singular talent for making choice picks of words...

 

 

I try In fact there are many people who will vouch for how trying I am

[KJames]

I try In fact there are many people who will vouch for how trying I am

 

However, never let it be said that I don't appreciate the art form involved in the double entendre.

[Y_B]

What in the world are you talking about, Mark?????

 

[Rakuten06]

I'm a top but slowly gradually transitioning to be a bottom (expected it to be happening in 2012! ), but I don't think it's a issue in relationship because no matter what happens, only important things in relationship is honesty, trust, and endless love.

 

That's my opinion but I may be wrong

 

 

[Tiger]

I feel like more of a top today.

[gabrielsknife]

I'm the person you wish never discovered this poll! (total lolz) I'm a rather dominant transgender with dreams of topping. And one day my dreams will be realized, hens why I voted for male/top.

 

And that whole thing on "closet bottoms" is total bs. Of the guys I know, they say it depends on the partner. One I know says point blank that he'll top, but can play either side if he's in the mood and depending on the partner. And I gotta agree with him. It would all depend on how I felt at that moment. It's always good to be flexible .

[Skylights]

There should have been other options for females so I agree with everyone else... hmm maybe a dominant/submissive primarily option ? Oh well, I settled with clicking the female option. I get that women are the extreme minority on this site but still there is something past just being female in terms of sex.

[Y_B]

There should have been other options for females so I agree with everyone else... hmm maybe a dominant/submissive primarily option ? Oh well, I settled with clicking the female option. I get that women are the extreme minority on this site but still there is something past just being female in terms of sex.

 

You could get a strap on and go to town on someone

[Arpeggio]

I still need a Both or No Preference option D=

[hh5]

I still need a Both or No Preference option D=

 

2nd the motion!! Just don't add Blow up doll!!

[Adam Phillips]

I don't know; I find it difficult to relate to the question. I don't think of my sexual identity as sufficiently defined by a specific practice to make a noun out of it and call myself that. I've done both of those things, and I like them both in their own way. And I've done other things too that have nothing to do with topping or bottoming. Those things seem just as significant to me and as definitive of my sexual self as topping or bottoming.

 

Also, being on top and being on bottom are different experiences and I sure wouldn't want only one of those. It would feel incomplete or something.

 

Still, I recognize that others' mileage may vary.

[pitchan]

Female heh xD

[Skyline]

Well I identify myself as a bi male, leaning heavily female, which translates into bi/leaning top.

 

Although I dont think that accurately describes myself lol, as I have no intention of bottoming ever. Topping is more in the realm of possibility, but not really something I'm up for at this point in time.

 

Yes I know I'm an anomoly But no set of data would be complete without them!

[Skylights]

You could get a strap on and go to town on someone

 

I'll think about it. Heh.

[pitchan]

Hmm. I was just talking to my friend about preferences earlier today. How one person's preference is diffirent from another.

Some people prefer masculine men, other prefer the pretty or short types etc etc.

This whole discussion on who prefers what roles reminds me of that. We also talked about what roles we would like the characters we are reading about to be xDDD

[Simon]

I have a severe height issue thats related to this.

I'm 5'4-5'5 My bitch is 6'2.

 

Thus he thinks he's the man, the macho, the top!

 

Doubted.

 

I prefer bottom undenyably but damn I will top just to spite him!

[KJames]

I have a severe height issue thats related to this.

I'm 5'4-5'5 My bitch is 6'2.

 

Thus he thinks he's the man, the macho, the top!

 

Doubted.

 

I prefer bottom undenyably but damn I will top just to spite him!

 

Hey, Si', just remember, the tall ones are worth the climb!

[TetRefine]

as I have no intention of bottoming ever.

 

 

Thats what I used to think.

[Prince Duchess]

I still need a Both or No Preference option D=

 

Agreed

[PrivateTim]

Thats what I used to think.

 

I know what you mean. I am a total top except when I'm not.

[Skyline]

Thats what I used to think.

 

Everyone tells me this lol.

 

I cant put it out of the realm of possibility, but quite frankly, the idea of bottoming is so unappealing to me in so many ways, that I dont think I'd ever be willing to try it. Regardless of the whole, "You dont know until you try" ideology. I dont know, and I'm quite happy not knowing

[TetRefine]

It's funny but scary because you sounded like me almost word for word. I used to never understand why someone would like bottoming. But if you find someone you have a lot of trust in, its amazing how that changes everything.

[PrivateTim]

It's funny but scary because you sounded like me almost word for word. I used to never understand why someone would like bottoming. But if you find someone you have a lot of trust in, its amazing how that changes everything.

 

I actually convinced myself when I was your age that because I had no interest in bottoming, I couldn't be gay or bi, that little c*@K sucking habit of mine was just a hobby or something I figured and then one day I met someone I fell head over heels in love with and when I first met him the thought, out of no place, popped in my head 'I want him in me'. Whoa! No one was more surprised than me.

[Skyline]

It's funny but scary because you sounded like me almost word for word. I used to never understand why someone would like bottoming. But if you find someone you have a lot of trust in, its amazing how that changes everything.

 

Well be that as it may, you must not know me very well I have a pretty steel resolve once I've set my mind on something. As I said, I cant put it out of the realm of possibility, but at this point in time, I can fathom no circumstance, which would cause me to change my mind.