Philip's past could be a can of worms that is best left untouched. Philip will have to decide how much to divulge and assess how he wants to proceed. Somehow I have faith the young hero can be a hero to himself too!
Thank-you for sharing. I especially liked the part about your dad putting you up on his shoulders at the Calgary Stampede. That and other treasured memories that bring a smile to your face will help as you mourn him. May he rest in peace.