The Drop in Centre

[Reader1810]

17 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

Nice!!  Today our mall was open.. not all stores were but lots were. Some of the tiny ones you had to order from the outside and they'd get it for you.  Honestly.. our grocery store has arrows on the floors and big signs  with big arrows.. people just dont get it.  After last week and going up and down and around to get in the aisle we wanted we just walked up and down every aisle.   i bet the stores are loving that.. you're more likely to buy more that way... 

We only have arrows leading to the checkout stands, but you have to wait to be directed to an empty one, which strangely has been cashier #8 the last three times I’ve been there - my new lucky number, perhaps?  

For the rest of the store, it’s an honour system set up to avoid other shoppers and store staff which people are very good about doing. Then again, I shop at 8 a.m. when the store isn’t that busy.  Oh, and there are arrows for coming in and out of the store with big bottles of hand sanitizer upon entering and exiting. 

As for walking up and down every aisle? That used to be my normal way of shopping. List what list?  

[Reader1810]

3 minutes ago, kbois said:

Most of the stores down here have had arrows for a while. The only problem is that people ignore them. I've found myself doubling back more than once because I  forgot something in aisle 2 and I'm all the way in aisle 12. Of course I end up going the wrong way, then get confused as to which way I need to go to get back to where I was. At least I wear a mask, unlike half the other people. 

Florida has just banned alcohol from being served in bars. They won't make masks mandatory, but instead choose to ban alcohol. Why they reopened bars in the first place is beyond me. What did they expect? Floridiots. 🤦‍♀️

Tonight is my night for a couple of glasses of wine. Hello white zinfandel, my friend!🍷

There’s no helping some people. They just do the wrong thing, because they don’t care. 

Enjoy your wine.  

[Fae Briona]

8 hours ago, Thorn Wilde said:

We both expect to sleep like babies tonight.

So...you plan on waking up screaming every two hours?

[Brayon]

8 hours ago, Thorn Wilde said:

We both expect to sleep like babies tonight.

 

6 minutes ago, Fae Briona said:

So...you plan on waking up screaming every two hours?

 

Reminds me of this meme... "I rather sleep like a cat."

Spoiler

 

[kbois]

My son called tonight and he called my husband's cell. Hubby talks to child for a while then hands me the phone. 

Five minutes into the conversation hubby starts wandering around the house...searching. 

Me: What are looking for?

Him: My phone.

Me and child: bwaaahahaha!

And I'm the one who's been drinking tonight! 

[Reader1810]

18 minutes ago, kbois said:

My son called tonight and he called my husband's cell. Hubby talks to child for a while then hands me the phone. 

Five minutes into the conversation hubby starts wandering around the house...searching. 

Me: What are looking for?

Him: My phone.

Me and child: bwaaahahaha!

And I'm the one who's been drinking tonight! 

Aww, poor guy.  

 

[kbois]

3 minutes ago, Reader1810 said:

Aww, poor guy.  

 

Eh, I'm just glad it wasn't me. My worst was panicking because I  couldn't find my phone. It was in my hand. I was talking to my best friend. 🤦‍♀️ I couldn't even blame it on alcohol. She's never let me live it down either. In my defense, we had been talking for a long time. 

[Mikiesboy]

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip over my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

Writing has always been my preferred method of communication. It is something i am good at.

But before all that,  remains who i am and what i am and the silence that is expected of me. Sometimes it is hard to quiet the storm inside. And when it is hard, when i cannot find that silent place within, i turned to a wonderful piece of writing. An insightful piece. You normally do not see it in this form. But this way requires you be still, calm and quiet to allow the words to travel over and through you as water does over stones. You must calm your mind to read it this way.  I find myself needing this today and so i share it here with you all:

Spoiler

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.^[3]

Max Ehrmann, 1948

 

Edited June 27, 2020 by Mikiesboy

[kbois]

34 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip of my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

Writing has always been my preferred method of communication. It is something i am good at.

But before all that,  remains who i am and what i am and the silence that is expected of me. Sometimes it is hard to quiet the storm inside. And when it is hard, when i cannot find that silent place within, i turned to a wonderful piece of writing. An insightful piece. You normally do not see it in this form. But this way requires you be still, calm and quiet to allow the words to travel over and through you as water does over stones. You must calm your mind to read it this way.  I find myself needing this today and so i share it here with you all:

  Reveal hidden contents

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.^[3]

Max Ehrmann, 1948

 

Every single point is well said. Thank you for sharing tim.

Have a good day everyone. 

[rickproehl]

43 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip of my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

Writing has always been my preferred method of communication. It is something i am good at.

But before all that,  remains who i am and what i am and the silence that is expected of me. Sometimes it is hard to quiet the storm inside. And when it is hard, when i cannot find that silent place within, i turned to a wonderful piece of writing. An insightful piece. You normally do not see it in this form. But this way requires you be still, calm and quiet to allow the words to travel over and through you as water does over stones. You must calm your mind to read it this way.  I find myself needing this today and so i share it here with you all:

  Reveal hidden contents

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.^[3]

Max Ehrmann, 1948

 

tim

thank you for sharing this. 
take care my friend.

[Reader1810]

55 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip over my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

Writing has always been my preferred method of communication. It is something i am good at.

But before all that,  remains who i am and what i am and the silence that is expected of me. Sometimes it is hard to quiet the storm inside. And when it is hard, when i cannot find that silent place within, i turned to a wonderful piece of writing. An insightful piece. You normally do not see it in this form. But this way requires you be still, calm and quiet to allow the words to travel over and through you as water does over stones. You must calm your mind to read it this way.  I find myself needing this today and so i share it here with you all:

  Hide contents

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.^[3]

Max Ehrmann, 1948

 

Thanks for sharing this, tim. Some excellent advice and ideas and thoughts within those words. 

[mollyhousemouse]

1 hour ago, Mikiesboy said:

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip over my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

Writing has always been my preferred method of communication. It is something i am good at.

But before all that,  remains who i am and what i am and the silence that is expected of me. Sometimes it is hard to quiet the storm inside. And when it is hard, when i cannot find that silent place within, i turned to a wonderful piece of writing. An insightful piece. You normally do not see it in this form. But this way requires you be still, calm and quiet to allow the words to travel over and through you as water does over stones. You must calm your mind to read it this way.  I find myself needing this today and so i share it here with you all:

  Reveal hidden contents

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.^[3]

Max Ehrmann, 1948

 

💛

[MichaelS36]

1 hour ago, Mikiesboy said:

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip over my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

Writing has always been my preferred method of communication. It is something i am good at.

But before all that,  remains who i am and what i am and the silence that is expected of me. Sometimes it is hard to quiet the storm inside. And when it is hard, when i cannot find that silent place within, i turned to a wonderful piece of writing. An insightful piece. You normally do not see it in this form. But this way requires you be still, calm and quiet to allow the words to travel over and through you as water does over stones. You must calm your mind to read it this way.  I find myself needing this today and so i share it here with you all:

  Reveal hidden contents

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.^[3]

Max Ehrmann, 1948

 

Beautifully said, boy. Silence is a great teacher, if you stop to listen. 

The Desiderata is a timeless piece and worth reading anytime you've the need for wise and calming words.

It's pleasing when our subs learn the lessons we try to share. But these lessons take time to become part of us because they are lessons. We do not have on and off switches, and understanding is not, absent one day and instantly there the next. That is why we teach, why you are asked to sit in silence ... it's not a punishment, it is a lesson and when you eventually 'get it' there is enlightenment and peace. But these too are not static, these things must be practiced and the learning/work never stops. 

What you've written this morning made me smile. 

[Brayon]

Thank you for sharing that piece, @Mikiesboy. Very wise words there.

I just wish I could shut the brain off at times.

[chris191070]

2 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip over my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

Writing has always been my preferred method of communication. It is something i am good at.

But before all that,  remains who i am and what i am and the silence that is expected of me. Sometimes it is hard to quiet the storm inside. And when it is hard, when i cannot find that silent place within, i turned to a wonderful piece of writing. An insightful piece. You normally do not see it in this form. But this way requires you be still, calm and quiet to allow the words to travel over and through you as water does over stones. You must calm your mind to read it this way.  I find myself needing this today and so i share it here with you all:

  Reveal hidden contents

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.^[3]

Max Ehrmann, 1948

 

Powerful words tim. Excellent advice and ideas in this piece. Thanks for sharing. Take care 

[MichaelS36]

I think I have a little bit more to say.

tim's post reminded me that no matter the original assigned role we take on in a relationship we do evolve and change. Last year I revised some of the rules we  have between us. tim had changed and I had to change with him. Why? Because had I not, he would have become unhappy and dissatisfied. Because I chose this, I was rewarded with a more outgoing and confident partner. One who was no longer afraid of some of the things I wished to have in our life. 

We need to expect our partners will change. Always. We've been married ten years working toward eleven. When  I look back, tim is not the man I married. He is so much more now, unchanged in some ways but he is a deeper, more thoughtful and wiser.  I hope, I am also.   I spoke to him about writing this and I asked how he thinks of himself now. 

I laughed at the tim-ness of his answer. What did he say? 

i am tim with umami. 

That says it all. 

[mollyhousemouse]

@MichaelS36 Sir,  change is inevitable. growth is always good, however not always easy. how we deal with it is up to us. with love & support, the scary & difficult become doable

@Mikiesboy i have that piece also at my desk, thank you for posting it here

[Reader1810]

11 hours ago, Mikiesboy said:

As a submissive in a D/s relationship i am taught the importance of silence.

i used to fear it ... silence and quiet. Afraid to alone with my own thoughts. Afraid of just sitting and being.

i am a reactive person. i still, often, talk too much. Online it is easy to be that person, i am inside ... brash, not listening and especially not hearing.

in 'real life' i don't talk much unless i know you well, because otherwise i trip over my words, stammer, don't trust my own thoughts and ideas.

I’m a bit of a mix of what you’ve described, tim.

First and foremost, I crave silence or maybe not complete silence, but an absence of words or human noise - ie music. When I’m out for a walk it’s the sights and sounds within nature that are a balm for my soul. 

I rarely speak when there is a group involved. My SiL has observed - and I think she’s right - that when I do speak I do so quickly because getting in a word when there are others (alpha types who are very confident) i’d difficult. I find it easier to listen and observe rather than participate. Of course,  that doesn’t stop me from reactionary (thinking about it I realize that’s what they are) comments about whatever the topic at hand happens to be - I really wish I was good “at taste your words before you spit them out” but it’s an ongoing struggle for me. 

Yesterday evening I was weeding the garden for more than an hour. There was a wonderful breeze and the sounds of nature. Who knew weeding and digging in the dirt could be so peaceful? Not me that’s for sure. In fact, I’m actually looking forward to getting out there again. Surprised, I am. 

Still, I think I should try to be more sociable, not that it’s that easy to do so right now. 

Edited June 27, 2020 by Reader1810

[Fae Briona]

3 hours ago, MichaelS36 said:

Beautifully said, boy. Silence is a great teacher, if you stop to listen. 

The Desiderata is a timeless piece and worth reading anytime you've the need for wise and calming words.

It's pleasing when our subs learn the lessons we try to share. But these lessons take time to become part of us because they are lessons. We do not have on and off switches, and understanding is not, absent one day and instantly there the next. That is why we teach, why you are asked to sit in silence ... it's not a punishment, it is a lesson and when you eventually 'get it' there is enlightenment and peace. But these too are not static, these things must be practiced and the learning/work never stops. 

What you've written this morning made me smile. 

@MichaelS36 & @Mikiesboy: Beautifully said, both of you, and a lesson that applies outside of D/s relationships as well.

[Fae Briona]

3 hours ago, Brayon said:

Thank you for sharing that piece, @Mikiesboy. Very wise words there.

I just wish I could shut the brain off at times.

As someone who has dealt w. depression and anxiety issues all of my life, I share that wish. Meditation (and medication) help, but there are still days where one's own mind is fighting against you.

[Mikiesboy]

8 minutes ago, Reader1810 said:

I’m a bit of a mix of what you’ve described, tim.

First and foremost, I crave silence or maybe not complete silence, but an absence of words or human noise - ie music. When I’m out for a walk it’s the sights and sounds within nature that are a balm for my soul. 

I rarely speak when there is a group involved. My SiL has observed - and I think she’s right - that when I do speak I do so quickly because getting in a word when there are others (alpha types who are very confident) I find it easier to listen and observe rather than participate. Of course,  that doesn’t stop me from reactionary (thinking about it I realize that’s what they are) comments about whatever the topic at hand happens to be - I really wish I was good “at taste your words before you spit them out” but it’s an ongoing struggle for me. 

Yesterday evening I was weeding the garden for more than an hour. There was a wonderful breeze and the sounds of nature. Who knew weeding and digging in the dirt could be so peaceful? Not me that’s for sure. In fact, I’m actually looking forward to getting out there again. Surprised, I am. 

Still, I think I should try to be more sociable, not that it’s that easy to do so right now. 

 

Digging weeds is repetitive work. It's kinda like swimming maybe.. so your brain let's your muscles go and your mind can ponder.

[Reader1810]

3 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

Digging weeds is repetitive work. It's kinda like swimming maybe.. so your brain let's your muscles go and your mind can ponder.

That sounds about right, and seeing the garden look so nice after all that rain we had last night is very satisfying. Yes, I have accomplished something and done it well - good for the psyche. 

[Mikiesboy]

39 minutes ago, Reader1810 said:

That sounds about right, and seeing the garden look so nice after all that rain we had last night is very satisfying. Yes, I have accomplished something and done it well - good for the psyche. 

All your hard work made me crave an iced coffee!   

[Reader1810]

51 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said:

All your hard work made me crave an iced coffee!   

I’m currently drinking this one. It’s such a light powder, I need to nix it with almost boiling water. I do that in a mug with a small amount of water, then add some cold water or milk, so I can poor it into a glass with ice. It’s quite sweet, so it doesn’t need any added sweetener. Next time I’m at the store, I’m going to try a different flavour - plain or caramel, possibly. 

Edited June 27, 2020 by Reader1810

[Mikiesboy]

2 minutes ago, Reader1810 said:

I’m currently drinking this one. It’s such a light powder, I need to nix it with almost boiling water. I do thst in a mug with a small amount of water, then ad some cold water or milk, so I can poor it into a glass with ice. It’s quite sweet, so it doesn’t need any added sweetener. Next time I’m at the store, I’m going to try a different flavour - plain or caramel, possibly. 

I've never seen these before. I'll have to look.  I've been mixing mine by putting a couple of tablespoons of cold water in a glass with the coffee and sweetner.. the coffee dissolves okay in the cold water.. then i add skim milk and a drop of 2% evap milk and ice cubes.